by whiplash girl child in the dark

Gender: female
Age: 18
Race/ethnicity: mexican
Location: mexico
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: art curator
Relationship status: single
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual

Kinky Way To Lose Virginity

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? G: was a male, he was tall, handsome, i met him at his art show, i really wanted to fuck him.
N: was my best friend, she is tall, really skinny and blonde, really cute, we both wanted to fuck G

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? N came from another city and knew G from facebook, i had just met him at his art show, we both liked him, and wanted to tease him, and we thought then it would be better to fuck him. We told him this and he was overly excited.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He picked us up and asked us what did we want, we asked for cigarettes, champagne, mdma and cocaine, he bought tons of them all. We arrived at his mansion, he was living all by himself, we started drinking and dancing and listening to music, we took the mdma, and suddenly we all felt the rush and got really horny, we got naked in the couches and started touching and kissing each other, he was really turned on. We then decided it was better to go the bedroom, we started slapping and kicking each other very roughly and suddenly i got on top on him and just like that i wasn’t a virgin anymore, it didn’t hurt, it felt good, we continued the rough play, when he decided he couldn’t take it no more we went to the kitchen and there was a mountain of cocaine waiting for us, i did the lines and they took the first hits, then i did them, with a rolled up bill, i probably did too much because when i lifted my head i saw a drop of blood in the glass table and in the white shirt i had borrowed from him, the coke had numbed my nose and i couldn’t feel anything, my nose was bleeding. We went to the kitchen for some champagne and started talking about stuff, we got horny again and G proposed the idea of going to the jacuzzi, we had a bubble bath with our champagne glasses, we kissed in there and fondled one another a bit. After that i went and took a nap, thats when i felt a little pain of my just recently broken hymen, but it was not that bad, in the morning these guys still got it going on and doing more cocaine in the living room, i took some lines and then i got picked up in the morning by my best friends from high school, they of course didn’t know the things i did that night.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? i wanted to loose my virginity, it just felt right doing it this way, i never wanted to be in a committed relationship while loosing it.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? lots of cocaine, mdma and champagne

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? we all still remind as really good friends, N is my best friend now, but she has a boyfriend now.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? to a few persons, they were all shocked and thought i was a bit crazy to do it this way

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think after this i realized that being a very sexual person is just my nature and we shouldn’t be ashamed of being this way

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

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