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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Vermont
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Healthcare
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40?
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Who knew ice could be so hot?
How long ago did this hookup happen? About a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I posted an ad on a local hookup site, and James was the only one to respond who seemed to embody what I was looking for in a hookup partner. We e-mailed back and forth for a week or so, and then decided to meet at his house.
We had exchanged photos prior to meeting, but he was even hotter in person. He was a smidge taller than me at 5’9″, dark Italian features, except for these yummy blue eyes. He had a very physical job, and his body reflected that.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We hung out in his kitchen for a bit, just talking. I had previously warned him that I can be a bit shy at first, so he offered me some vodka, which I readily accepted. We got along great, and after about 30 minutes of interesting conversation, he leaned in to kiss me. We stood in the kitchen for a bit fervently making out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After some time, he led me to a couch in his living room, where we continued to make out. There was a certain level of desperation that seemed to be coursing through each of us as we desperately grabbed at one another and continued to kiss. Clothes started coming off, and it happened so fast, I can’t even remember who removed what from who.
We had talked up our wants, desires, and skills during our e-mail exchanges. We both talked about how much we loved mutual oral and foreplay, but once the clothes were off, he was between my legs so I just pulled him into me. We had sex in this position for a few minutes before he invited me up to his bedroom.
On the way upstairs, he stopped in the kitchen for what I assumed was a glass of ice water. As soon as we got into his bedroom, we finished removing whatever clothing was left on our bodies, and he laid me down on my back. He made his way between my legs and began performing oral on me. He was very skilled, and seemed to know when to lick, when to suck, and when to nibble. I orgasmed. He came back up to kiss me, and while he did, he grabbed a piece of ice from the cup he prepared in the kitchen. He placed it in his mouth, and traced it along my skin as he worked his way back down.
OMG! I hadn’t ever felt anything like that before. He held the piece of ice between his teeth and ran it along my pussy. He pressed it against my clit with his tongue. He lapped up all the water that it had left behind as it quickly melted against my heat. When any evidence of the ice cube was gone, he slid inside me.
He was a very enthusiastic, attentive and aggressive lover. It was rough and hard, which I like. Occasionally he’d lean down to kiss me while he was inside me. At one point, he went for more ice to melt along my skin, lips, and nipples while he continued to be inside me. He made me beg for him to cum inside me.
After he came, he laid beside me on the bed, and we caught our breath. I knew what was coming because we’d talked about it before. I barely had time to recover before he was between my legs again, licking up the mess he had left. I asked him to let me suck his cock while he did that, so he straddled my face while he continued to go down on me. He went for more ice. He ran it along my inner thighs, and just inside my vagina. It didn’t take him long to get hard again, as I kept his energetic pace and took him as deep in my throat as I possibly could.
We had sex a second time. This time the pace was more casual. There was a lot more kissing, and it lasted much longer. After cumming a second time, he laid beside me in bed again and we carried on with conversation we had started before. Eventually I had to leave, and we spent some more time making out before I finally walked out the door.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt fine, and still feel fine about this hookup. I was in a “complicated” relationship at the time, so there was a bit of guilt initially after, but I did continue to see him for a few months, and every night was like this.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more desirable
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have never told anyone.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? This guy had a very attractive personality, and was smoking hot to boot. It was a lot of fun, and I always felt very comfortable in my own skin around him.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really comes to mind!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It really hasn’t. I have always been OK with casual sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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