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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Bay Area
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Scientist
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15-20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Korean AAMP Bareback

How long ago did this hookup happen? Today

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a beautiful Korean escort in her early 20’s that I had seen earlier in the week. Had a really great time during our first encounter and wanted to return for a second.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She works for an AAMP (Apartment Asian Massage Parlor) and I made an appointment by phone. She was a little firecracker during our first session and I couldn’t get her out of my mind, so I set up another meeting.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She started off with a bareback blowjob, which was phenomenal. She has such a great body that I couldn’t wait to fuck her again. The first time we hooked up we used a condom, but this time when she said “condom?” I could sense that it was more than “are you ready for sex?” I instinctively said, “yes,” but then it struck me that the implication for bareback sex was there. She was already putting the condom on when I asked if sex without a condom was a possibility. She basically said, “let’s talk about it later…”, and we had fantastic protected sex.

While I was recovering I gave her a massage while she was laying on her back. I started to kiss her neck and back and began rubbing my hard dick on her bare ass. This time I brought up the bareback option and asked how many guys go bareback. She replied that it wasn’t many and that she was very particular about who she lets do it. She then rolled me onto my back and slid her pussy down onto my bare cock in cowgirl position. It was completely different from covered sex and I could tell that she was enjoying it more because she was way wetter than the first time.

We proceeded to fuck doggy-style which was wet and wild. The feeling of her pussy on my bare cock was exhilarating and seeing how excited she was made it even better. Finally, I turned her over into missionary style and we continued to fuck until I came on her belly.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt and feel great about it. Although I know it was perhaps not the safest/smartest thing to do, it was such a rush. I have no expectations for any kind of relationship, but I definitely hope to return to fuck her again and now that I know it is an option, I will probably not use a condom then either.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one yet. I may tell my best friend, but I’m sure I will get chastised and I don’t want to diminish my enjoyment of the experience.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having raw sex with a beautiful young woman.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The potential for STI’s.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Somewhat. In the past I never thought I would have unprotected sex with an escort, but when the situation arose it just felt so natural that I went with it. Regardless of any potential negatives, I think I would have regretted not taking this opportunity.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think we should destigmatize sex work and sex workers. Some of the best people I have met are sex workers. They are people, too, and should not be treated like second-class citizens. The vast majority of them are there by choice and we need to stop treating them like victims. Listen to what they have to say (regarding their own rights) and keep your laws out of my bedroom!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s great. Get the word out that sex is not something to be ashamed about.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!