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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Education
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

Korean And Not Chinese Paid Sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years’ ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had felt really horny for a week and wanted to indulge in some professional sex, especially with a Chinese woman. I had a brief turn on for slim Chinese women who have slim waists, white skin, small tits, and big wide eyes. I saw the perfect profile of an independent escort on London Vivastreet and had enjoyed some good experiences with the women on the site. I set up a meeting that day on the phone with a beautiful Chinese woman who looked seductive on the profile page. I texted her for an evening to meet.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The app sent me to a street name and postcode per usual. I got to the location and parked about 15 minutes early, feeling hornier by the minute. I called the number I was given and got a disjointed Asian-accented voice with bad English who seemed confused. Frustrated, I called back and told the woman I was the punter who had made an appointment a few hours ago. I was directed to a three-level terraced townhouse with a load of junk in the front garden and a bad look about it. A thin Asian man opened the door and walked me up a shabby looking flight of stairs. We entered a small room with just a double bed with a sheet over it and a small bedside table. A woman walked out of an en-suite bathroom shower area. She was dressed in just a white towel. She took her panties off. I then realized that she was ‘the woman’ I was supposed to meet. She was quite plump with a round face and not the woman from the profile. I felt annoyed by the typical ‘bait and switch’ but the woman was already naked and laying on the bed. Feeling awkward and already three flights up, I didn’t want to create a fuss, so I handed over the cash and the guy left the room. I got undressed and the woman went straight to putting a condom on my limp dick. Before that, she got out a small spray bottle and sprayed my dick and wiped it off with a towel. I had no idea what she had sprayed me with, but I hoped it was just a mild antiseptic. I thought I would just get a massage and call it a night, so she gave me a deep Thai style massage for 15 minutes and got me aroused.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?  I motioned for her to lay on her back and she seemed surprised when I offered to give her some oral. Her pussy and clit were super sensitive, and she jumped when my tongue flicked her clit. Soon after, her belly was rolling as her orgasm built up. I slowly sucked at her pussy and she lurched into an orgasm with her toes and nails digging into the sheets. I made some small talk after the sex about being Chinese in the UK, and she said in broken English that she was Korean. She then enthusiastically said it was my turn and I took her doggy style with a condom for the remainder of the session. She was really panting and heaving with each thrust. If there is one thing I have learned from sex with escorts, it is that they love doggy and the feeling of balls slapping on their pussies. I could tell that she was having another orgasm and asked her if she was having “a great fuck” – she replied “yeah” between gasps and after she came I slowed inside her. I took the condom off and motioned that I wanted to wank on her tits. She then got a towel and laid it all around her. She caught my cum on a small flannel before wiping it on her tits to avoid getting any cum on the sheets. This was quite impersonal and not something escorts usually care about. I realized that she and the skinny Asian guy must share the bed as a regular room. Five minutes later, someone knocked on the door, indicating the end of the session. The woman gave me a hug and hoped to see me soon. I was proud I made her cum twice.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had no intention of going back after the ‘bait and switch’ even though she was a nice woman. I decided to use an agency that guaranteed genuine women and to only see escorts at my house so I could turn them away if they were not what I wanted.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one – best forgotten

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? Not what was on the advert – fraudulent

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting the escort to cum twice – she seemed genuinely fulfilled

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Being conned into sex with a woman I was not attracted to

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Only to be less trusting about independent escort profiles.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I felt better after seeing a regular gorgeous escort but still wanted to fuck a slim Chinese woman. I may look for an agency that specializes in these women.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Enjoy casual sex – especially as a single person

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great learning experience

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