What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? RMT
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Not sure
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a tall, Caribbean goddess with long braids and soft, beautiful skin. I honestly can’t remember how we met but we dated briefly about 4 years ago – ending on an amicable note because she was a few years younger and was interested in some of the partying I had been dabbling with at the time, and I refused to be that sort of influence (she was interested in a career in law enforcement at the time.) I wasn’t entirely sure we would be hooking up as she had visited my city a few weeks before and we had had a casual dinner and some drinks and solely talked – which was also nice because I was able to really appreciate the glow-up. She had done some solo traveling and dated other women, had different life plans, I was certainly attracted to her then as well but held off for fear of overstepping my boundaries as an ex.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So she lives in Toronto and I in a Canadian city very close to Detroit (about a 4 hour drive.) I visit some friends in Toronto fairly regularly, and one of them is a career drag queen in the gay village. This lady had never been to a drag show before, and was excited at the idea, so I decided to take her to one of my friend’s shows. We had been dancing, hanging backstage with the queens, giggling and smiling at each other all night – and finally, toward the end of the second show I leaned in at the bar and asked: “Can I kiss you?” She flashed a winning smile and said: “Of course!” Which was followed by an “I knew it!” After we had broken apart which I just thought was mad endearing.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? “Oh, wow” is what I remember most vividly, whispered breathily up into the air like an exhale of smoke. This small but striking display of genuine emotion made me immediately- and incredibly, wetter.
I slid my tongue into and out of the sweet, swollen, and aching sex of this breathtaking woman – revelling completely in each of my five hungry senses. She was sat and arched impossibly beautifully on top of my face and my fingers were settled firmly into either plump, round buttock.
I held her exquisite little clitoris firmly between my lips each time she shook in my quietly celebrating hands. She was loose and lovely with her words and the filth and depravity of a few of them left me positively melted.
The wanton look in those big, brown, almond-shaped eyes was absolutely palatable as they roved over me. “My turn,” was added as a heated promise like a simpering garnish to that stare, as wildly guttural as you please, sending my insides just throbbing for her.
I came so wholly and gloriously, so gratefully. I fluttered down from the fire that spread in my chest and loins and basked in its embers as I ran kisses down her satiny skin.
I spent the night and we held one another, each covering the other in sleepy little kisses throughout the night, our bodies contrasting wildly as they wrapped around each other. Most lesbians are quite wonderful at casual intimacy and that is something I will always cherish in a girl/girl hookup.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I spent a VERY long time masturbating about this encounter. She’s an absolute goddess and I fully intend to catch up with her after a month abroad.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends – they were happy for me!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The emotional release for both of us! We talked about how we both needed it badly 😉
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to leave at 11 am because we both had things to do and not being able to lay around and fuck/eat all day afterward.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I wouldn’t say that – I feel refreshed.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was hot ????
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think lesbians are a bit different when it comes to casual sex because even if it’s casual we TALK. We communicate about everything, we allow ourselves to become intellectually and or emotionally invested in the encounter and then we talk about what that means to each of us in most hookups I’ve ever had. This makes it usually a wonderful experience even if you never talk to or see that person again.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s great! I hope my story is enjoyed!
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