What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? South Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met at the end of the Spring semester. My lab partner in class dropped out mid way through the semester (that’s a whole different story) and my professor asked a group of three girls who had been working together if one of them would switch to work with me. I didn’t know any of them. Never even noticed them because I had my head down working on my own project with a dysfunctional lab partner. Amazingly, one of them volunteered to leave her friends and help me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Working in the lab together turned into studying together which turned into going to lunch/dinner together over the course of a week. Whenever we studied, she always sat close next to me, thigh to thigh. If I reached for something, my arm would brush against her breast. One night after we were done studying, she walked with me back to my dorm room and my roommate was hanging out with his buddies. I just wanted to go to bed. So she says, let’s go back to my apartment. So that’s what we did…
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we got to her place, we hardly made it to the bedroom before we were tearing each other’s clothes off. Her roommate was already asleep in another bedroom. I kissed her head to toe. When I got to her vagina she was unbelievably wet. Her whole body was writhing around and she was trying her hardest to suppress some light moans. Her hips were gyrating and I had to hold her pelvis down with both hands just to get my licks in. She put her hands behind my head and pressed me into her vagina. I should add that I was a virgin and had never done any of this before, so had no clue about what I was doing.
But everything seemed to be going well so I just kept it up. All of this was unplanned and we didn’t have any condoms. She wanted to return the favor so I laid on my back while she did her best to give me a blowjob. The visuals of her taking my dick into her mouth were great, but it actually didn’t feel that great. We fell asleep. The next day we got up, did our classes and met up in the afternoon. We went to the market to buy some food for dinner and a pack of 6 condoms.
After dinner, we watched a little TV and fooled around on her couch. We then took a shower together and went to the bedroom. We literally fucked like animals. She loved riding on top of me. She had great breasts that hung down over my face. I got on top of her and pounded her pussy hard! The sound of our bodies slapping against each other was amazing. She would thrust her pelvis up to meet mine. So awesome!
I asked to try different positions like 69 and doggy style and she was very willing, but we didn’t connect as well as we did with her on top and missionary. We used all 6 condoms and didn’t sleep at all that night. It was exhilarating. For the next two months we fucked 3 times per day every day. First thing in the morning, once mid day and again at night. I found out a few days into this that she had a long distance boyfriend and she broke up with him. I felt a little weird about that.
But here I was, a recent virgin, banging this hot girl thrice daily! Who am I to question this? Well, she graduated and moved out of state to med school and I’m still here. I would like to continue as a couple but I guess this was just a fling for her. Plus she seems to have a lot of new friends and a new life in med school. I think she has a boyfriend already… So I’m feeling sad and lonely now… Not the best ending.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? See above
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends knew this was happening, but I didn’t share details. They were happy for me. One did come to me to tell me about the long distance boyfriend, but I already knew at that point.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I have never felt so close to someone before
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It ended
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I was a virgin prior to this. Gained more confidence, but not sure that I will be able to find a connection like this again
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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