by Felicia

Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Asian
Location: Manila
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Accountant
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a very attractive guy, well built and nice teeth; 29 years old (I like older guys) I don’t know him much, just his age, profession and of course his skype account. I met him in craigslist. I feel very comfortable talking to him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I responded to his post. I asked for his skype then we tried to “get to know each other”. Everytime we chat its about sex. We actually planned the hook up for about a month because our schedule won’t fit and I refused to check in a cheap hotel. It really built the anticipation.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kissed, a lot and oh boy he gave the kisses I missed for the past 5 years of singleness. Mostly we did is kissing and a few oral. His craigslist post is very clear to be no sex and well because I want to keep my virginity. He politely asked to cum in my mouth and cutely allowed him to. He gave me the best oral but sadly I didn’t orgasm. I think I masturbate too much. We cuddled and talked afterwards. He tried to fish my real age because i look really young. We checked out and he kissed my cheek goodbye. Nice hook up indeed.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No vaginal sex, no condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was really horny since I hit my 20s and well curiosity.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? no

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We still chat on skype. Few days after, he asked if I wanna hook up again. I want to hook up regularly with him. He was very nice and gentle. I like guys with manners. 
Now, well, I kinda don’t wanna see him anymore for hitting my LADY BALLS. He posted again in craigslist the day after we hook up (how I found out? I have dummy accounts okay) . I don’t care he wants a new girl. I thought that maybe he didn’t have fun as much as I do.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. He is my dirty little secret.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Hell no. Best hook up and well my first hook up!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? BEST- the kiss. oh man. I told him his kiss turns me on and guess what he did.
WORST- During the hook up. Nothing really. I had fun. Just the freaking new post the day after haha
I feel confident again and satisfied.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative


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