Current location: Southeast Asia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Master’s student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best?
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? April 2015
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was planning on my solo backpacking trip in a country in East Asia and I wanted to contact some locals for homestay to save some money. I contacted several people and only he responded. He was a European. Honestly, his profile was not very detailed and there were only 5 photos of him and his home, which was absolutely beautiful because it had a big garden with a BBQ area near a lake. According to him, it’s a lagoon. I thought his profile was a bit sketchy but I needed a place to stay so I went for it anyway. Before the trip, we occasionally kept in touch via messaging and once I arrived, he gave me his address and I went to his house.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When I arrived at his house around 10pm on a Saturday night, he made me a nice sandwich and told me he was about to go to the beach club and asked if I wanted to join. I did. So we went out and danced until 3am. I had only 2 beers and smoked rolled tobacco that he offered. The roll tobacco tasted really good and I smoked a lot more than usual. We got home by 4am but I was still a bit hyper from the loud music and so was he so he showed me around the dimly lit garden. We stood near the lake and started talking and getting to know each other. At one point, I stretched my arms and neck a little bit because I was tired after long transportation during the day. He noticed that and suddenly gave me a massage on the neck then after a minute or two, I could feel his boner pressed against my back so I turned around and made out with him. Then we moved to the bedroom.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? While undressing each other, I realized that I had my period that night and didn’t notice it. He was ok with it but to keep things neat, we moved to the bathroom and had sex under the shower instead.
While making out, I gave him a little handjob to get him started. Then he stimulated my clitoris and licked my nipples. After that, he penetrated me from the rear end. He hands constantly played my nipples and ran along my body then grabbed my derriere to speed up the thrusting. We switch to the reverse cow girl move. I rocked up and down, back and forth. I like that position but it had been a long day for me so I didn’t have the stamina to continue with the squatting. I pulled his penis out and turned to him. He fingered me while licking and biting my nipples. I was kneeling and he was sitting on the wet floor. The hot shower made the whole experience very pleasurable. I orgasmed twice and told him to stop. We then moved to the spooning position and we kept locking mouth during the whole time. He maintained the momentum for a while then orgasm. We didn’t communicate anything during sex and he was really good.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes we both had orgasm.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t discuss any history and we used condoms for protection.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? The context being in the garden near a lake was romantic and gave me a sensual feeling during the talk. He was also a buffed and good-looking man with a good sense of humor.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol and tobacco involved. Not much. I would say we were not tipsy nor drunk.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We took a shower together afterwards. We finished at around 6am and were both tired so we went straight to bed.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I don’t talk much about my sex life to anybody but I did give a hint that I hooked up during my travel and they were ok with it.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual for both of us.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best: nice settings. I was satisfied with his fingering.
I have an open mind about hook up culture as long as it is safe so it only gave me a cherry on top of my backpacking trip.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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