by K

Gender: Female
Age: 26
Race/ethnicity: Australian
Current location: Budapest
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Travelling through Europe
Relationship status: Single
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Last Day In Austria

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We were in the same hostel room for a night. Shoulder-length blond hair, cute enough on first meeting but average dress sense which is maybe why I wasn’t keen when I first met him; being well-dressed is something that immediately attracts me to someone. Really interesting guy though, I found it super easy to talk to him and found myself being a bit more open than I normally would with someone I had just met. It wasn’t until later when we were drinking in the bar and I could actually see his face that I realised he was pretty hot. He still didn’t seem like the type to do this though, maybe a little clean-cut, but he definitely surprised me later on.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was in the back of my head for most of the night but we spent most of our time talking to other people. I was a bit drunk so I can’t remember whether I made a suggestive comment (which is unusual for me, drunk or not). The bar closed, we both lingered and I guess there was suddenly an unspoken agreement that it was happening. I instigated the making out and decided that the best place for us to go was a rather spacious (and clean) toilet cubicle in the men’s bathroom. I didn’t want to have sex in the hostel room with others around.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We both got naked (his clothes definitely hid what a great body he had), went down on each other and got to it. It was a fun encounter, he was into dirty talk and was really playing up the ‘one-night-stand’ of it all, asking if there was a fantasy I wanted to fulfil considering I’d never see him again. That was actually a really freeing idea, I think I may have been a bit more open or talked dirtier myself than I would have with a person I potentially could have run into again. He wanted to have anal but I wasn’t interested. I hadn’t had sex in 10 months so while the sex wasn’t amazing (it was good though), it was fun and exciting and definitely what I needed.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I didn’t have an orgasm, I never have with a partner before. I knew it wouldn’t be any different this time so my focus was on making him cum. He did, in my mouth.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms; I’m not on the pill and wouldn’t have had sex with him otherwise. I did ask him about any STIs he might have but it was a bit after the fact.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I just really wanted to have sex and I really wanted to have sex with him. I guess I had also received some bad news from a guy I liked earlier on in the day and just wanted to get a little revenge, even if I was the only one that knew about it. After going without sex for 10 months (not of my own choice) it was really nice to feel attractive and wanted as well.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol was involved. I was drunk enough to be a bit hazy on some of the details but I remember it all. We were probably both the same level of drunk.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I got back to our room about 20 minutes before he did, I’m not sure where he went. The next morning he had a flight to catch, he said it was a “pleasure” meeting me and we hugged goodbye. If the room had been empty I probably would have gone for a bit more than a hug. We didn’t add each other on Facebook which I am feeling conflicted about. On one hand I have no reason to ever see him again. On the other, he was actually interesting to talk to. And maybe we could have had some cheeky internet conversations?

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve mentioned it to a few of my friends. They are all happy for me (considering my dry spell) and a couple teased me for having slutty-hostel-bathroom sex.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual for both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? All the factors (the fact that I had just met him, the location, the actual sex) made it a really fun encounter, something that I had hoped would happen on my travels. The worst thing would be that even though I enjoyed the spontaneity of fucking in a toilet cubicle, I wouldn’t have minded being able to make a night out of it instead of just having a couple of hours together. The hostel just wasn’t the place for that.
It hasn’t changed the way I think about casual sex, but it has reminded me of some things I had forgotten about myself.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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