What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 17
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Last Night in Town

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I am in my fourth year of a undergraduate degree and am graduating this year, and had spent two years at the same university. It is a relatively small university meaning faces start to become familiar as you see people around fairly regularly. James was one of those faces, I had seen him at the local bar almost every weekend. I didn’t think he was that attractive until I heard him talk, he has an accent that sounds english and was just a funny guy in general. Other than seeing him around and noticing him/crushing on him a little, I didn’t know him at all. I had heard a few of my friends talk about him, but that is the extent of it.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The last week I was in town he messaged me on tinder and we started talking, we were going to hang out the second last night before I left, but he ended up getting too drunk and blacking out. The next night I asked him if he wanted to hang out, and he said yes. He was going out again, but he would be home early because he wasn’t up for another crazy night. He ended up getting really drunk again, and by the time he was done partying it was 2:30am. We had to go to his place, because my dad was in town helping me move.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He met me half way to his place, and I could tell he was really drunk which annoyed me because I hadn’t been drinking at all. He also informed me that there was still a party going on at this place and we should take the back door to avoid the people. By the time we got to his place the party had died down and we went in the front door up to his room.

So much happened during our hook up, but I will try my best to recount most of it.

When we got in his room I sat on his bed and he came over next to me. We talked for a minute or two and then I kissed him. It didn’t take me long to realize that this wasn’t going to be a normal hook up. The way he kissed was so aggressive. He would tease me a lot too, for example he would pull away when I went to kiss him and not let me kiss him until I gave up and then he’d make out with me again.

He fingered me, we 69ed and I went down on him for a bit. He would also put my belly button piercing in his mouth and play with it, bite and suck my nipples, and suck on my ear lobes.

After making out and fooling around for a little bit, I asked if he had a condom and he got it. He asked me how I wanted him to fuck me and I said rough. When he asked how rough I told him i’d tell him if it was too much.

We fucked for a little while in missionary, he would move my legs above his head or just pin me down however he wanted. He also lifted me up and leaned over me and it was the best position I have ever tried. I have no idea how he did it, but it was great. He was really rough the full time and I was loving it. He told me he was going to cum after a little while and I told him to slow down cause I didn’t want him to yet but he didn’t and he came. I figured that would be all that happened because I had to go home early enough that my dad wouldn’t know I had hooked up with someone.

We lay down for a minute or two tops and had a quick conversation, and then he said that he had another condom. He went and got it and we fucked again, missionary again for a bit then I suggested doggy. It lasted a bit longer this time, I had to stop him at one point because his head was pushing mine into the wall and I felt like he would give me a concussion if I didn’t move us back a bit. He finished again after a while, and went downstairs completely naked to get water and smoke some weed. Keeping in mind that he was having a party and there were still a few people left downstairs. I got dressed while he was gone and got my stuff together because I had to leave soon, he came back up about 5 minutes later and lay in bed. We started making out again and he told me that he wanted to strip me down and fuck me again. I started sucking his dick, and for a bit I was sucking his dick in-between having a conversation with him. He told me he wished I would just do that all night. I continued sucking his dick for about a half hour or more, and then he started to undress me again. I got on top first this time for a bit and then we did missionary again. He didn’t last as long this time, but I was ok with that because I was starting to get sore from being pounded. When he finished we cuddled for a few minutes and I asked him to walk me home because I didn’t want to fall asleep there. He wrapped himself in a blanket, still completely naked, and said he would walk me to the end of the street. He did, we kissed, and I went home and slept for a few hours before I had to get up and finish packing.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I texted him the next day and said I had fun, and that he was worth waiting up for. He said he had fun as well.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told my girl friends, they had different reactions. I am happy with the experience though, so it doesn’t change my opinion of it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had a little crush on him the year before, so I felt a little accomplished for sleeping with him. Also he knew what he was doing.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I couldn’t sleep over/stay longer.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? A little

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? While we were fooling around he started fucking my tits, and asked when was the last time someone did that. I said never and he said wow I’m taking your tit job virginity.. I then told him that I was actually a virgin in general. The panic on his face was hilarious. He paused and said.. there is no way, you are way too good at sucking dick.

He also mentioned a lot that it sucked that I was leaving the next day.

Also he choked me so hard at one point that I thought he would leave a bruise, and I have little bruises all over my body, I keep finding them. There is also a cut on my boob from him biting/sucking.

I was really hung up on a guy I had been hooking up with for a while. I was also upset that he didn’t want to meet up to say bye and hook up one last time. I thought this meant I was a bad lay and it really hurt my confidence. James changed that, and honestly I am not hung up on the other guy at all anymore.

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