by Ladybug

Gender: Female
Age: 34
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: Mexico
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Dive shop attendant
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Around 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Last One Before The Family

How long ago did this hookup happen? Almost 2 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a handsome man from Spain, he used to work with my husband and I always felt like he liked me a lot. But we were both married. My husband was away in a business trip and he invited me (and a lot of other people) to a bar to have some celebratory drinks for some reason. We had some brief  conversations before this night but we were in friendly terms. I thought he had a little bit of a spark but was not too into it. I still felt like there was something… That night we shared some drinks, talked a little, I was with other friends and he occasionally stopped and talked to us and maybe put his hand on my back, nothing too obvious. Then he said he needed to go and since we lived nearby each other he asked if I needed a ride. I did!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were on his bike and headed home. He started asking if I had some agreement with my husband. I told him we were open about it and that if I were to have sex with some one else it would be ok. When we arrived it was almost without words. I believe he said something like “how’s your place” and I said something like”you should come and see” or something as cheesy. Bottom line he went up, he walked inside the apartment and he started kissing me. It was so fast I didn’t even had time to process. We fell into the mattress and just like that we started fucking… It was hot, and fast and…. Too fast.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We barely had like 2 minutes of good hot sex, just the regular way, and without any warning.. He came!
So, basically, it was getting good and he came so fast I didn’t even get to enjoy it. Then he sat and said please don’t tell my wife… And please don’t tell your husband even though you are open about it… And that’s it! He left.
A few days after I saw him and he gave me a ride in his bike again. When we were in a stop sign, he tried to grope me from his seat. I told him it was ok that time but I was not looking for an affair or anything like that. We have seen each other since and never spoke of it again

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Not me, didn’t have time! He did

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Nothing. It was too fast to even ask.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to try some sex with someone else, we have an open agreement and it is ok to have sex as long as you don’t get emotionally involved with someone else.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had some drinks, maybe a few beers. He had some alcohol as well but cant be sure of how much.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Meh. I felt kinda disappointed. I wanted a hot adventure with an older experienced man. Got a 5 minute hookup with a guy that acted as a teenager

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I believe I told my very best friend about it just last month, with no particular details. He told me about this website.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual indeed

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not regret, but probably wouldn’t do it again should I have the chance.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing is that it was a way to stop fooling around. Just a month after that, I got pregnant with my first kid. Haven’t done anything since then, nor have I wanted to.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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