What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? MAROUBRA
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
Last Weekend Hookup For A Long Time…
How long ago did this hookup happen? This weekend
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I posted a previous story about the same person (on and off over the past 3 years) who lives 1.5 hours away who was originally going to move to a rural town after he returned from Vietnam. There were delays with his application and instead he will be seconded for 7.5 months for his new job and then return. He messaged earlier this week to see if I can come the weekend as it’s the only chance we will see each other before he officially moves. I finished work on a Friday, boarded a train down to his place. I caught a cab once I arrived at the station.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I arrived at his place and he was watching TV. We chatted a little and then he made a drink with mixed whiskey and coke. He also mentioned that he wanted to check out the local Bavarian café that opened earlier on Friday. I agreed to since this was the last time that I will be in his town and make the most of the weekend.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We drank, watched some tv and then fooled around a bit. I felt his finger rubbing my pussy and then mentioned he was horny. He went behind me started kissing me on the neck and my butt felt his dick. We then proceeded to take our clothes off. He laid on the floor and wanted me to squat on his dick. I squatted on his dick, fucked in that position until I came and then he came on himself not long after. It felt good. After that, we ate a meat and cheese platter with crackers made by him and watched a movie afterward. After that, we fell asleep and then both fucked again doggy and legs up position early Saturday and Sunday morning.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? In between the weekend, we went out for breakfast at a nice cafe and then hours later, ate at the Bavarian beer cafe at lunchtime. Sunday morning came and after we fucked for the last time, I packed my stuff and said my farewell to him as I had things that I wanted to do back in Sydney. I thanked him for the past 18 months of fun and visiting him, wished him best in his secondment and move and to keep in touch and let me know when (or if) he returns to the ‘gong.
I’m glad that I could see him one last time as the next week (the long weekend), I’ve got plans to finish my final assessment and catch up with friends and a relative flying in that week.
It’s goodbye for now A!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel more desirable
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing each other one last time for a long time. Morning sex… Heading out to the ‘gong and checking places out.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Our last hookup for at least 7.5 months. There might be a possibility that he may move to Melbourne for work (not soon) in the future but unsure if that will happen yet. If he does return to the gong, then a possibility to see him next year but will see…
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really but I knew that he was looking for a new job since last year and it’s finally happened. I will semi-close this chapter as there is a possibility that he could return to the ‘gong next year or as above move interstate but will see what happens.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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