What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Kuantan, Malaysia
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Very high desire, online sex stories, photos & videos addicts
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My Late Friend’s Wife

How long ago did this hookup happen? About a year

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She’s Chinese, 5 years older but still look good. Slim, fair skin. She was my late friend’s wife, who died 5 years ago because of diabetes. I used to hang out at their home. Before the hookup, I just wondering how good to have sex with a Chinese, because I never had a Chinese girlfriend. But I didn’t make any move

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After my friend died, it took 2 years before I contacted her, just to say hi & asking how’s life. It started to get close as a friend because she had nobody to depend on. No planning at all. I instigated with asking about her sex life after her husband died & one thing lead to another

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Our first meet at her home just end up with kinky stuff, I touched her breast, vagina with little objection. The second meet ended up with hardcore fucking. Feel so good & she was so happy. A little objection at first, but later on she’s control the game. Yea, she’s a good lover

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She’s insisted to get married, but I can’t give a commitment

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? I cannot give a commitment to marry her

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finally get to fucked a Chinese woman

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I hate hairy vagina. Told her to shave for next time

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nothing

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nope

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its very good

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