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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Middle Eastern
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? France
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Architect
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Unsure / Questioning
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Late night booty call

How long ago did this hookup happen? A couple of weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? S. and I met during my stay in Amsterdam. I met him via a friend. He was tall, handsome, chiseled jawline, fit, couple of piercings and tattoos all over his body. He was a very smart and funny guy and we got along really well, as we hung out a couple of times that week before anything happened.

I was instantly attracted to him, how could I not, but didn’t think i had a chance for many reasons (amongst which was I wasn’t sure about his relationship status since he kept bringing up this girl)

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was home one evening with some friends, and he was at his place. We were chatting for a few hours. The conversation was very platonic which bothered me. I assumed he wasn’t interested. At around midnight, he informs he’s done with work and wants to hang out. He didn’t live very far from my place, so I thought, yeah why not. I got to his place, we hung out, was a bit awkward since we both knew what was about to happen but no one wanted to really initiate it.

20 minutes into the conversation, he tells me “Let’s sit on my bed and make out.”
I liked the blunt-ness of it, don’t beat around the bush too much.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He laid down on the bed and I got on top of him. He were passionately making out. I stopped to take of my clothes as I was wearing skinny jeans and a sweater, not too sexy and helpful in terms of flexibility and comfort.

I was in my underwear and bra, and got back on him. The kissing was intense. He was pulling me towards him, and sticking his tongue all the way, as far as he could. He moved on to kissing my neck and almost giving me multiple hickies. I couldn’t stop moaning which of course turned him on even more and made him more aggressive and passionate. He began spanking me repetitively, hard and harder, which I loved. My screams turned me on and made him smile. He unhooked my bra with one hand and was grabbing my ass with the other. With the bra off, he moved on to my breasts. As he was sucking on my right breast and bitting my nipple, he was caressing and squeezing the left one. At that point, I was almost screaming of joy, and was just dripping wet.

Luckily, he was able to read me well, stopped, pushed me backwards so I was on back, grabbed me by the legs with his strong, muscular arms and pulled me towards him, and started going down on me. I had never been eaten out this devotedly. Not only did he know what he was doing, but he was enjoying it oh so much. Which of course make me enjoy it even more. He was licking me and fingering me. I couldn’t hold it in, I was screaming, and when I started shaking, he kept holding me down and going at it harder, faster, better. Time stood still while when he was down there. When I couldn’t take it anymore, was moaning, screaming, and shaking I came, all over his face, which loved. He then spanked my pussy, which was really wet.

I pushed him back and ordered him to get on his back. Tit for tat, it was my turn to give him pleasure. He had the most beautiful cock I had ever seen. Big, thick enough, and it was just rock hard. I started licking him, up and down, and around, getting it really wet, before putting it all in mouth. Luckily, I don’t get gag reflexes, which makes it perfect for deepthroat. I started off rather slow, a little tease before going faster and faster. Even with his dick in my mouth, and I would pretend to pronounce the letter “R” so my tongue would be giving him another feeling. I would always make sure the tip of penis was touching the back of my mouth, and would sometimes do small strokes, which he loved!

At that point, he begged me to stop, put on a condom, and with my legs around his head, he thrust him into me, and given how wet he had made he slipped right in. In and out, in and out, from slow to fast. Oddly enough, despite the intensity of foreplay this just was great or as satisfying. A few minutes into this position he sat back, and I rode him, that position does nothing to me, it just doesn’t hit the spot. I wasn’t ready to waste time on this, and innocently asked him if he wanted to take me from behind, an offer he couldn’t refuse. He turned me around, my ass was up, and my head down on the bed for a perfect angle of penetration, and boom he was in. That’s when I could feel it. We were both moaning and screaming, and talking dirty to one another, all the while enjoying the occasional spanking. I knew he was going to come since his chest was leaning towards my back more and more, until he bursts out a huge moan and fell onto me. He stayed in me a couple of seconds, while I was grinding him.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Eventually he pulled out, but kept the condom on as we cuddled and talked. He washed himself off. We got in bed, snuggling, talking for over an hour about our interest, which was quite nice. I slept over and left back to my place the next day while he was still sleeping (wasn’t avoiding him, but I wasn’t going to wait till 1PM, I know he sleeps late). We are still in touch, as we got along really well. We talk about different things, and we sext from time to time. We talk about visiting each other soon.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, MDMA, ecstasy, molly

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told our mutual friend about it, she didn’t want details since they were friends but was happy I was happy.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The foreplay.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The awkwardness of the different unsuccessful positions during sex.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really, I am already pretty chill about casual sex. However, I was quite surprised with myself about the fact that I didn’t get attached despite how nice he was, and how much we had in common.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wouldn’t never impose it on anyone. If you feel comfortable with casual sex, you do it. I worry a bit about hooking up with total strangers, and I have never done it given my trust issues with people. It’s still taboo though. My best friend and I often talk about this, we wonder if casual sex could on a regular basis destroys your chances of ever being fully attached to one person, but also if we truly have to remain with one person, or is it just a construct imposed over years by society.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? CSP is a great project! It really gives you another perspective on “romance”, as we are brought up to watch movies where the woman always ends up heartbroken because a man didn’t call her back, or where there’s a happy ending. CSP actually shows you the other, hidden side of society.

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