What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 57
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? North Carolina
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Finance
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2 or 3

Late Night Hook Up

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 30ish fit guy, Dark blonde hair, hazel eyes

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was single and was enjoying exploring my sexuality. I had experienced mm sex earlier in life but had mostly been with women. I was hornet and a little buzzed that night and started looking at Craigslist personals. He had an ad under casual encounters and I replied with my #.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We texted for awhile and he asked if he could come over. I said ok but was skeptical since CL is full of flakes. Sure enough, my doorbell rang and he was here. I opened the door and he was exactly as his picture, a relief. He wanted to get right to it and we went to my bedroom. I was wearing a robe and he took off his clothes and he had a great body with a nice cock. I laid back on the bed and he started to suck my cock like a pro! After a while, he said he wanted to ride it. I was hesitant, but horny and said ok. He lubed up my cock and slowly slid down on it. Since I was drunk, I didn’t cum for a while and he kept riding me cowgirl style. His cock was hard as a rock and I told him I was going to cum and shot my load deep in his tight ass! He rode a little longer and finally shot his load on my chest.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He got dressed and I told him I would like to fuck him again. He was in town for business but had to leave the next day.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Hot one night stand.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great!

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