by Cleo

Gender: Female
Age: 17
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: UK
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Single
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Late Night Shower With a Friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? A few months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I knew the person through mutual friends, although we’d somehow managed to never really speak much before. He was definitely my ‘type’ and it’s safe to say I was attracted to him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began at a party at his house. I’d had far too much to drink and we got closer and closer as the night went on. After a while of naked cuddling in bed, he suggested we go take a shower together (due to all the other beds being full of sleeping guests).

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He said he’d had enough of my ‘teasing’ and we somehow get into the shower together. It’s fair to say this wasn’t just a quick little shower shared together, and we even ended up on the shower floor together. We had sex and the hookup finished with me giving him a blowjob, and us then stumbling back upstairs into bed with some friends, giggling about what had just happened.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes..and yes

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? It was discussed that I was on the pill but extra precautions were used as well.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It just happened. We’d both had a bit to drink and got more flirtatious as the evening went on.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol was involved, more so on my part although he was pretty tipsy himself.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I saw him again a week later at a party and he seemed very shy about the situation and the fact that all our friends kept bringing it up. I personally didn’t like the way he acted by trying to shy away from what had obviously happened, but if I saw him again I’d love to see what might happen between us….

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I spoke to close friends about what had happened, although under the circumstances that we were at a party, all the guests ended up hearing about the hookup.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It wasn’t something either of us had thought about before the hookup happened, but ok that night we both wanted it.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hookup was how spontaneous it was. After being in a relationship for 8 months beforehand, it made a change to doing something a little bit out of the ordinary. The hookup definitely changed how I view casual sex and I’ve seen that sometimes it can get complicated, but it’s also made me realise that I am not a ‘relationship person’.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!