Current location: SLC
Highest education received: High school diploma
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 months ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We’ll call him D and as far as REAL LIFE PEOPLE I know, he’s one of the best looking. He’s some blend of Cuban, Spanish, Puerto Rican, and Jewish. Perfect. Tattooed, facial hair. We had known each other for a while, only through social media and the occasional downtown run-in, but this was the first time we had really talked and hung out in person. He had invited me by his place for his 31st birthday. I thought I’d drop by and say hi, but that would be it. I had no idea he had ANY interest in me.. just because I’m so much younger.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Most everyone had left the party and we were having a cigarette outside. I wasn’t wasted, but a good, happy, champagne-drunk.. I pulled him into my jacket and he grabbed me and we started making out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out for a while on the porch. It was freezing out, so we were all over each other just trying to keep warm. He pushed me up against the railing and pulled my dress up.. there were still people inside the house so this was very exciting ; ) He pulled me inside, past the remaining party people and straight to his bathroom. We pushed the lights off and locked the door and just went for it. I pulled my dress over my head and he ripped off my tights. He lifted me onto the counter and I wrapped my legs around him. He fingered me in the bathroom until the couple who hijacked his bedroom were done fucking, then we took their place. We fucked for hours. I came 8 or 9 times. I gave him a blowjob, but just one because that is nooot my thing.
Finally we fell asleep.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Many times.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We did not use a condom, but he pulled out.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Initial attraction
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol.. not copious amounts, but enough to make it more fun
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I see him around town all the time, and it’s always very pleasant. We haven’t hooked up since but I’m sure it’s possible.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nearly everyone I saw the rest of the weekend..hahaha
I was VERY proud of this hookup. I got rounds of applause, for sure.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? OH yeah.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about it was how spontaneous it was.. I was not expecting something like that to happen.
The worst? Uhh, nothing.
This was my first casual encounter. It made me realize it’s totally possible to sleep with someone once and not feel bad or abandoned after.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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