What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA, NC
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Server
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 68
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We had met on a dating app after I came back into the country from a year long study abroad. I learned Spanish so I thought it would be cool to try and go out with a Hispanic girl and practice in a real life situation. She was about 5’1” dark skin, with an amazing body, and a really cute smile. The first time we had hung out was amazing. Dinner movie, making out Etc but I got too involved in being home that we didn’t cross each others path until the other night.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As previously mentioned we once went on a date and kicked it off, but nothing too crazy came from it. Well I was extremely horny for the past week, and out of the blue this girl texted me and asked me how I was doing. I just recently had a Spanish kick for a week or so talking to all my friends from my trip so I saw this as a golden opportunity to practice some more. We talked all day and then randomly around 10PM she said she was off work and that I should come pick her up to go out. I was really tired, but as I said very horny, so I drove the 30 mins to her house and she hopped in the car. We were way less nervous this time than on the first date and two minutes into the drive to the city we were making out and being two horny kids.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well I was driving and she was in the passengers seat, short and as absolutely sexy as I had remembered. We joked around in Spanish about who was the culprit behind the lack of talking for a few months and I took the blame just to make her laugh. Then she gave me the universal eyes and we started making out. While driving. This was sexy, but scary so I had to tell her to stop a couple times. This turned her on even more and while I grabbed her hair and pulled her back into her seat she would grab my dick and stroke it on my pants. This was too much and I was all over the road but so turned on I couldn’t stop. Then she kissed on my neck and slowly put her hand into my pants, rubbing it and squeezing it. Absolutely crazy as we were on the high way. This goes on until I offer up going back to my house and she giddily agrees. She ends up giving me amazing head on the way home and I about wrecked the car on the way. We got back to my house and immediately started having sex. I went down on her and then fucked for almost an hour, taking a breather in between orgasms. She got on top and road me and was so tight I couldn’t believe it. Finally at 2:30am I came inside of her stupidly and we didn’t say anything but made out instead and then fell asleep. We woke up twice and repeated until I had to take her home.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I really enjoyed it retrospectively but was a little afraid when we realized that I came inside and she said we had to get the pastillas. Pills. She was very calm about it and said that she did not want a child so we had to get it and I was completely onboard. We went to the store together and joked the whole way there. She took it $50 later, that I paid respectively, and I said sorry but I had a good time other wise. She agreed and we joked about who would call who in 3 months to hang out again. We haven’t talked since. I probably don’t expect to see her again. But I am still concerned about how she felt after taking the pill.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Plan B / Emergency contraception
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend and he thought it was very cool that we spoke Spanish together the whole time.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Just because I have too much sex and also we failed to use protection.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The awesome car foreplay.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? This is horrible but she had a tilted vagina if that is a correct term.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? A little. I want to be more protected.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’ve had casual sex off and on since the start of college and it is an amazing thing. Very liberating and quite a cure for the low self esteem. Yet it’s gross knowing I’ve had sex with so many different people and makes me think there is something wrong with me as a person, that inhibits me from being content with just one person.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Amazing and I would love to continue reading and sharing perspectives.
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