by AMS

Gender: Male
Age: 27
Race/ethnicity: Indian
Current location: USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Science
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met her on an online dating site. Got chatting sexy, and decided to meet up for a date. She was 5’7, blonde, curvy. Went out for dinner, went back to her place to watch some TV, her roomamates were annoying so we came back to my place and were watching netflix…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had been talking a lot about sex the night before on chat. I took the initiative and kissed her, and then we started making out heavily. I took her to my bed, and started taking off her clothes.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She stopped me and asked me if I had a condom. I didn’t have one on me that night, and it was raining outside so I didn’t feel like going out to get one, I admit I was a bit lazy. She offered to give me head, because she said she loved doing it when we chatted. I gladly accepted, and she did an awesome job.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, I did, and she swallowed. Then we cuddled a bit and made out a bit more, before she dressed and decided to leave.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None, we didn’t.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Just casual fun.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was hoping to go all the way next time, but somehow we only met once, and made out, nothing more happened. We both knew this wasn’t serious.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend at work, we share stuff at times, she was cool.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, for both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Yeah, regret not getting the condom that night.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? She had a great body and amazing oral skills. Also my first time with a white woman.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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