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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Manchester
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Tax Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was beautiful. Pale skin. Delicate features.

I entered the bar to cat calls from various ladyboys. Just a brief stop to watch these woman shout and scare walkers by. She was behind the bar and served me, far to beautiful and feminine to be a transsexual.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? An hour or two of small talk behind the bar and common ground established. We swapped contact details and arranged to meet in a bar further along. We met and danced. Within an hour we shared a taxi back to my hotel.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? In the room she went shy and stand off-ish. And claimed she was a real woman. We kissed and further explored each others bodies.

As I felt her vagina I realised she was post op. She went further shy at my realisation and by this point I was horny and any morality was irrelevant. This was a beautiful woman.

We undressed each other and she began to give me oral sex. We then moved to doggy style as i shifted entering between her pussy and he ass. Her op was within the past year and she claimed to have had only one other lover and wasn’t used to the sensation.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? In the morning, she left embarrassed and we promised to keep in touch. This never happened but due to the strangeness the kinkiness i relay it more than any other experience.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. feel embarrassment and ashamed when she is beautiful. I feel weak for this reaction.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was unique.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My fear

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Let people be.. And sexuality is not black and white.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Maybe I need to be more confident and assured of myself.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Its chased more than it should be. Is it that important.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Intriguing.

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