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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Secretary
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Curious about all things
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Lenny’s Party

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Lenny is someone I have known for ages, text-flirted with for years and occasionally hooked up with. He has a partner and I am married and it’s all a big secret. I have no idea what his background is but he is pale caramel, with eyes that make you wet with a look. I am utterly smitten with him and always will be no matter how hard I try to push him out of my mind. He is my drug of choice.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He and his partner had a partner, we were all there. It ended up being a huge drunken night in which my partner went home early, many of the other party goers got too drunk and retired early including Lenny’s girlfriend. Lenny and I had been making eye contact all night, careful not to let on to others what we wanted. Lenny cornered me coming out of the toilet and asked his friend if he wanted to join him in fucking me. His friend was too worried about my husband finding out so declined.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When it seemed like everyone was asleep except the two of us, Lenny took me into a room and demanded I suck his cock. He aggressively fucked my face, making me gag and enjoying my choking on his cock. My drunkenness meant I couldn’t suck properly and it was frustrating and embarrassing but he enjoyed it. We went into another room and started kissing and undressing but as he was about to put his cock into me we thought we heard someone so stopped. We went out into the lounge room and he began going down on me, it had been so long since I’d felt his amazing tongue and to this day he gives the best head of anyone I’ve ever met. His mate was asleep on the couch next to us but something tells me he was secretly watching which was kind of a turn on. I sucked him some more but eventually got scared we would get caught and ended it and we went to sleep on the couch.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I walked home the next morning, felt guilty but we have hooked up since. I can’t get him out of my mind

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to be with him again

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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