What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Business
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Let me sit on your dick

How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 months

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had known since our teenager years and we were both now in our late 20’s. Me and L had always got on really well, we would bump into each other at various clubs and raves and would often spend the night talking.

She would be someone I would date but L has a long term boyfriend and has been with him for well over 8 years, I also have a long-term girlfriend. Years before L had come back to my house after a party and we had nearly got together but she stopped because of loyalty to her boyfriend.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? L and me could go months without seeing each other but then bump into one another. We would occasionally text and in a recent encounter L got in a taxi with me and when I asked her to come in she said she couldn’t. L text me to say she liked me and if she came in she knew where it would end and she doesn’t want to cheat. This was the first time where we both admitted we liked each other.

Months later L text me on the night in question to ask what I was up. I was at a club and L asked if I was staying there as she might come up. She then text to say she was 5 minutes away and would I meet her outside.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I had been partying for a few hours and when L arrived it was clear she had been too as well. I assumed she would be with her friends but when she arrived she was on her own.

We went to the bar to get a drink and she grabbed me hand. We then naturally pulled together and started to kiss.

My friends had left and this left and L alone and now we both knew no one was around things heated up.

I ran my hands over L’s body and she whispered ‘not here but go to yours and I’ll sit on your dick’

We left almost immediately, both knew what we were doing was wrong but it felt like years of pent up lust, as we arrived on my road L checked my girlfriend would let be in.

Once instead the house we went straight upstairs and started kissing.

I soon had worked my hands over her bottoms before I slipped my hand down.
I gently teased her clit as she started to groan and then pushed my fingers into her. She started to wrong my cock through my bottoms and by this point I had her pretty much naked. She then asked me to take my bottoms off starting playing with my cock and before I knew it I was inside her. She was making lots of noise and she held her legs above her head so I can push all my cock completely inside her. We change positions a few times before she pushed me back, got on top of me and did what she promised and sat on cock, grinding up my cock hard and fast I had a great view of her pussy pushing up and down.

By this time it was was past 5am and she was due to go on holiday with her boyfriend and we both realised what we did was really wrong and she got a taxi home. She text me the next day saying to please not say anything to anyone and that She to dash around looking for a morning after pill!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? This had the potential to go into a full blown after as in the weeks after we both discussed a round 2 where we both weren’t drunk and the next time we were both drunk we arranged to meet up that night but it didn’t happen. A few months later she found out she was pregnant from her boyfriend and we decided to cut off contact.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Cocaine

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Cocaine

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? Cheating is never good even if with a long term crush

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finally having sex with someone that the pressure have built up with for 10 years!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Cheating

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It should not have happened and it made me think do I actually control

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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