What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Norway
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Like you would know how to use one

How long ago did this hookup happen? A few weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a very cute girl. She has short curly hair (not longer than around her neck). She is slim, despite not working out or anything she is able to keep a good body. She has freckles as well and I’d say her breast are a solid B. I have liked her for a while even though I have known her before I got feelings for her. We met in middle school through a friend.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started with us discussing sex-ed. while playing on our laptops. We were in the sofa in the first floor. We talked a little about stuff in general and how we had, mostly learned what we know about sex on the internet. We then talked about the bag of stuff (condoms and stuff like that) we got after the sex-ed class. I jokingly said a “pickup line” where I said something along the lines of “Hey wanna finally use that condom?” She scoffed and said, “Like you would know how to use one and it’s probably expired too.” I was offended as a joke and asked why she thought I wouldn’t know how to use one. I knew I was hiding my intentions behind jokes. She said that you can’t just have sex with someone, it must be built up. We then just talked about this for a while, not noticing we didn’t pay attention to the game or anything. After a while, we were very close and I gave her a small kiss which ended up in a longer kiss.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After kissing for a while, I moved my hand up to her breast, she didn’t wear bras usually because she found them annoying and her smaller tits didn’t bother her when she didn’t wear one, so I grabbed one through her t-shirt. She didn’t object and I did it for a while. Suddenly she broke the kiss and ran past me. Her older sister used to sleep in this area (even though it’s not her room) so my friend opened a drawer and took something out. She then locked the door and showed me a condom. We then returned to kissing. I started to unbutton her pants and she slid out of them. She sat up into the couch and I took off her panties. I think we both were incredibly horny. I started to eat her out, I didn’t really know what I was doing but it worked, I guess it’s because this was the first time for both of us. After a while, I moved away and she started to pull off my pants. She took out my very erect penis and started to rub it. It was the greatest feeling ever. She then started to lick it and take it in her mouth. She did this until I came. She had stopped blowing me by that point and just saw my dick explode. Luckily having my almost naked crush in front of me was enough to make me go hard again not too long afterwards. I then kissed her again slowly pushing her down on her back. She grabbed the condom and gave it to me. I put it on and started to position myself at her pussy. I grabbed one of her legs, lifted it onto my shoulder, and pushed in. It was incredibly good, for both of us. I have never seen her make faces like that. I pulled out and thrusted back in until I had a rhythm. I also held on to one of her breast. I moved my and to push up her t-shirt finally getting to see her boobs fully. They were bouncing all over the place. We kind of awkwardly fumbled into position where she was on top of me with her back turned. She leaned back to look at me and we kissed more. We were like this until she came several times and I finished.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards we were very tired, but we couldn’t just sleep like this. So, we both showered and went to bed together. This was in silence but it never really felt awkward we smiled at each other and laughed. We are a couple now but it’s still kind of the same, it’s like being her friend but there are more kisses involved.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Well just all of it, at the time seeing her breast would be the best thing ever.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was good and I look back at it fondly but at the time, there were moments where I wondered if this would just be a normal hook-up and our friendship would be destroyed due the awkwardness of the whole thing. But in the act the worst thing was the clumsiness, none of knew what we were doing and it lead to many weird pauses

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? As my first time it introduced me to sex in general, we haven’t had sex since but we will definitively do it again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s nice to be able to speak about this as I find it to personal. And the layer of internet anonymity protects me.

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