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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Lawyer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Still trying out things
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had met him in a club. He is a 24 year old policeman, very muscular, with sweet brown eyes and a sweet smile, dark short hair.We had flirted, danced, kissed (outside the club, pressed into a corner so my friends would not catch me cheating) and exchanged numbers. After a few weeks, we met at his place for 2 hours when the occasion arose. We talked a bit to get to know each other, then made out and finally fucked. However it was short as I was short on time and he was quite rough (see last story submitted) so I wanted it to stop. The next few weeks, we texted more.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Our texting turned from talk-about-our-day to full blown sexting. We would get each other hot and bothered via texts, what we would like to do to each other, and started sending naked pics. Me of my tits and my pussy, with fingers everywhere, and him of his sixpack and hard dick in his hand. I used some holiday time away from my boyfriend to indulge in this sexting and came a few times from masturbating to his messages. I told him that I had about 2 hours at a certain day and if he wanted to see me, he’d have to book a hotel at the train station. He was all for it. I travelled by train, texting him and got extremly wet from the mental foreplay.. He was already in the hotel, masturbating and sending me pics of his dick. He asekd me how I was feeling, and I said excited but a bit afraid. He immediately asked if he was frightening me, but it was just the cheating, and I told him so. He offered to call the whole thing off, he did not want to pressure me. He is very considerate that way. I told him no, that it was just the nerves, and that he should just telll me that I did not mean anything to him, that he wanted no more than a fuck, and that I was allowed to vanish from his life whenever I fancied without him doing anything about it. He obliged perfectly and I calmed down. I had made sure to be very presentable, you know, shaving, nice nails, etc. I was wearing lacey underwar and a sexy short skirt. I texted him not to greet me because you never know who might see you. So he waited in front of the hotel. When he saw me, he just went inside, me following, not talking or acknowledging each other’s presence. It was kinda hot to be so secretive. In the elevator, we kissed. In the room, I took off my jacket and shoes and he took off his shoes.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing, and touching, and he groped my ass under my skirt which I really liked (I always hope my boyfriend does that when I wear that skirt, but he never did). We were taking our clothes off. I was reallly wet and he loved that. He picked me up and put me on the bed, lowering himself over me, rubbing our genitals against each other, very hot! He started licking me. He had said before that he loved licking, and he does a good job – very dedicated, all over the place, while at the same time fingering me and playing with my tits. Heaven! He then proceeded to pick up my bottom a bit more so he could reach my asshole and licked that, too. He had told me before that he wanted to try anal, and I had not said no… but having my asshole licked was kinda weird. Combined with the fingering and licking of my pussy, I got excited. He then put one finger into my asshole while still licking my pussy and it felt damn good! He moved me over to my stomach and knelt next to me. I played with my pussy and he lubed up his fingers and put two fingers in my ass and fucked my ass with his fingers. I was going crazy, it felt incredibly good! With his other hand, he jacked off himself.
After a while, he lay back and I straddled him. He put on a condom and I rode him. This was nice but a bit uncomfortable as his dick is very wide at the base and almost does not fit into me. He found it all very exciting and said he was gonna come soon. I asked him where he wanted to come, and he pushed me onto my back, knelt over me and worked on his penis. He told me to open my mouth, and then he came all over my face. It felt very strange, it was sticky and hot and did not smell good, but it was also kinda hot to get him going like this.
After that, he got me a towel to wipe clean my face. We cuddled a bit and I realized I had not eaten all day and was getting woozy, so I started eating some chocolate I had with me. It was amazing, laying there, eating chocolate, while he kissed my whole body. He started fingering me again. I lay on my stomach and he kinda moved over me and played with my ass again. He then proceeded to put his dick into my ass, and I concentrated on breathing right and letting loose. It felt good, and I could just not believe that there was a dick in my ass! The thought alone made me pant, and I asked him several times if he was really fucking my ass, and he was really excited to answer, that yes, he was fucking my ass with his hard dick. After a few minutes, it started hurting as he got deeper, and I told him I had enough. He immediately stopped and went back to stroking me all over. We touched each other everywhere and I lowered my head to his groin and started blowing him. It was really only aftewards that I realized he had not put on a condom for the anal and that I had blown him wihtout cleaning the dick fist, but honestly, there was nothing disgusting about it, it tasted good. I sucked his dick and played with his balls. I got faster and added a hand and he moaned very much and panted how incredible I was at blowing him. I really enjoy blowjobs, my boyfriend, however, is not the biggest fan, so I enjoyed giving one to someone who appreciated it. At the end, he pushed my head down onto his dick with his hands and made me swallow his cum. I do like the swallowing, but his cum tasted gross.
While he lay back panting, I ate some more chocolate. We cuddled some more and he squeezed and slapped my ass cheeks, which I really enjoyed. We talked about how we had done so many firsts – my first time anal fingering, and anal fucking, and someone cumming on my face, and seing a man handle his own penis… my experienced certainly had been added to this time!
I then realized I would have to leave soon, we had been at it for 2 hours. I told him I wanted his tounge between my legs one more time, and he happily obliged. I was on my back, he propped up my lower body with his strong arms and licked the hell out of my pussy. He took two fingers into his mouth to make them wet – he had done that before, I thought it was an incredibly hot gesture – and fingered me with them. He has this amazing technique where he really gets the two fingers up there and then pushes the hand up so that his palm brushes against the clit and he works the g-spot and the lenght of the pussy and at the same time squeezes the ass and licks all over the vagina. It feels so good! I had been on the brink of cumming all the time, and now I moaned and panted and told him faster and then I came screaming. Hardly ever have I had an orgasm as intense!
We cuddled some more and he said, grinning, that he once more wanted to fuck me, he was hot for me again, but we both knew I was running out of time. We talked about how looking back, the things we had done were really kinky and like from a porn movie. We were both a bit shy and weird about having been so very open with each other. I said that I was able to enjoy sex with him more than with my boyfriend because I did not care about him or his feelings or how he sees me – if he thinks my requests are crazy, i do not have to care because I do not have to see him ever again if I don’t want to. It is different with a partner: you always want them to like you because you care about them, so I do not dare to suggest risky sex things like facials or anal or bondage… Because I am afraid of what my boyfriend would think about me if I did…So I was very happy to have been able to try out things with this guy. He felt the same. I went into the shower and he stood next to it, jacking off, but it was too soon after his last orgasm and his dick was not getting hard again.
We got dressed and kissed some more. I told him I would let him know if there would be another opportunity to repeat the experience. Then we left the room and went to the elevator. In it, we kissed one last time and he once again felt my ass under my skirt. Then we broke away and I left the hotel not looking back once while he checked out. I went straight home.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt very good about myself. My pussy and ass had taken all the fucking very well and did not hurt at all. I felt gingerly in my limbs, which was due to the exercise and lacking food, so I had dinner right away.
I thought about repeating the whole thing after a few weeks or months, but then my boyfriend whisked me away on a surprise holiday for some days to reconnect as a couple, and finally, finaly, he seems to have understood how important sex is for me. From that weekend on, he was like a new person, very affectionate, fucking me twice or three times a week, cuddling a lot. It is very very satisfying for me to finally get the level of body contact I want. So I wrote to the guy how things had changed with my boyfriend and that I did not have a good reason to fulfill my lust with him when I was getting satisfied with my boyfriend. He was very understanding, even happy for me, and said that I could reach out to him whenever things changed again. It feels good to have that back up.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to nobody. It is my secret. I think about it often, and I fell that it is very important for me to have done it. It makes it much more easy to settle down with my boyfriend. I had always regretted not getting more experiences sex-wise – I met my boyfreind a little too soon… But now I know that I can have this if I want to, and the experience itself has made myself much more self-confident and sure in myself. Only problem is now that I realized that I like anal, and don’t know how to suggest that to by moyfriend.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The many firsts I got to know. Realizing that I enjoy anal. The power of being able to do this.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The cheating.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It mead eme feel empowered.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I wish I could do it again.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would love to be in a loving, caring, committed relationship and yet fuck guys casually.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Amazing!

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