Race/ethnicity: White British
Current location: London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Investment Banker
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 250
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A few now
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 3 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A couple of years ago I shared an apartment with a female friend for a year. F was a friend of hers who didn’t live in London but came to visit regularly, so we’d met a few times before we hooked up and knew each other fairly well. She was tall, slim and blonde, and for someone of her build she had very voluptuous breasts, which was a turn on.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One weekend when F was visiting, I came home from having a few drinks in a bar with work colleagues and F was sitting in the living room. She and my flat-mate had been out drinking as well, and I could hear that my flat-mate was in her bedroom having very loud sex with a guy and clearly getting really into it. F and I drank some wine together and she told me that my flat-mate had met the guy in the bar they’d been in and that F and all the other girls they’d been with had drunk a lot of cocktails and taken some coke. We were both drunk and F was still high as well and we were getting turned on listening to my flat-mate fucking and pretty soon we ended up making out on the sofa.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? F took off her top and her bra and had me squeeze her breasts and stroke her nipples whilst we made out. Then we moved from the living room into my bedroom and F took the rest of her clothes off, got on her knees in front of me, pulled my jeans down and sucked my cock for a while. After that, I told her to get on all fours on the floor whilst I put a condom on, and then I had sex with her from behind. I think I was a bit numbed by how much I’d had to drink, so I was able to last a long time and eventually I had to fuck her really hard and fast to make myself come, which she seemed to enjoy. F slept in my bed with me that night. In the morning, we had a shower together and I fingered her until she came and she gave me a hand-job. Then F got dressed and she and my flat-mate went out for breakfast before F went to catch her train home.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did when I had sex with her from behind, but she didn’t. We both did when we had our mutual masturbation session in the shower the next morning.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t discuss anything but did use a condom.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I’d had quite a lot to drink and the combination of how hot F looked and my flat-mate’s loud sex noises got me really turned on.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, we’d both been drinking and F said she’d taken some coke as well. We were both sober by the time we took our shower together the next morning though.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I’ve seen her several times since but we haven’t hooked up again.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My flat-mate seemed to have worked out that something had happened – she must have realised that F had spent the night in my room or maybe even heard us. F later told her everything and she quizzed me about it. She thought it was great and we had a laugh about it.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, for both of us.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, there was nothing to regret – it was hot and fun and there were no expectations for either of us.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The drink and the thrill of listening to other people have sex made it pretty intense. Also the fact that I was so numbed that I was able to fuck her hard for a long time without coming. There was nothing bad about it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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