by Josie

Gender: Female
Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: Chile
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: College student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Lollapalooza

How long ago did this hookup happen? About 3 months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was at Lollapalooza (day 1) having a good time when this guy caught my attention. He was really good looking, tall brunette with some tattoos (I really like tattoos), and I liked his fashion sense. A solid 9 if you ask me, but at first he was wearing sun glasses so I couldn’t see his eyes.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So I was at the stage that had Capital Cities and saw him, it was instant attraction and gave him some flirtatious looks. He approached me and we started talking about music, while the festival went on, we went together to see more artists; danced, smoked and kissed a lot. Then for the last show of the day we went to see Zedd, where we got more horny. We went to the bathroom (classy, I know) and hooked up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had oral and vaginal, he must have a lot of experience because he was REALLY good at it. We both came, and he was acting really boyfriend-ish toward me (hugged me the 2 hours left of the show). At the end of Zedd we talked on our way to the subway about all the stuff we had in common, but eventually I had to go home so we had to part ways.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used a condom but didn’t discuss STI.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was really casual and unplanned, I was single and thought why not.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A few beers but we weren’t drunk. (As previous stated, we smoked cigarettes, not weed).

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The second day of Lollapalooza he called me so we could be together, and he was a nice lad. We hooked up again, but at the end I clarified this was not going to happen again, as I didn’t want to become some fuck-buddy. He said he understood and a week later he asked me out, we dated 2 months but two weeks ago he got a scholarship in the USA, so we’re not together anymore.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To my friends; some of them didn’t approve but others congratulated me.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? We both wanted it to happen.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best- he is a really nice guy and great shag. Worst- I can’t think a bad thing about it. I was never against casual sex, but as being a good experience I think I was lucky and that this doesn’t happen all the time in the hook-up world.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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