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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 74 at the time 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Retired
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Love sex
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Long Term Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Ex wife arranged it

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met casually over a few months. He was black & would dance with my ex at social events

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a social event were several local black guys continually danced with her & as the evening wore on & booze was consumedI could see that the guys would be emboldened, pulling her closer & feeling up plus allowing her to feel their manhood.
When we got home that night I could tell she was sexually charged, so I started to play with her pussy & gradually asked her if she had enjoyed all the attention from the black guys. She replied that it was OK. Stroking her pussy I asked her if she would like one, there was no reply other than her pussy reacted. Asking her again I got the same reaction, so I continued asking her the same question. Would you like one of those black guys? She became wetter and wetter eventually telling me she would love to have one. We fucked like we hadn’t for a long time. Laying there afterwards I told her if she could arrange it she could have one fuck her if she wanted.
A couple of weeks later coming home from the evening shift, she asked me if I had been serious about her having a black guy fuck her. I told her I was OK with it if she arranged it. She then told me she had arranged it if I wanted to go through with it. I asked her who it was & when would we get together. To my surprise, she told me the guy was my age ( I thought she would have picked a young guy) & then she really surprised me by telling me that he was ready to join us in our bed right then if I wanted. I told her to go for it. She called him. Told me he would be about 15 minutes, I should get into bed & when he arrived she would send him to join me& she would wait a few minutes in case I changed my mind about us starting a ménage-a-this. I lay there with a rampant hard-on thinking about what was about to take place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He and I lay there and eventually he said he had never done anything like this before. I told him neither had we. After about 5 minutes she came in already naked. Here I should say that she was just 30 & at her sexual prime. She was a very desirable woman with a gorgeous body.
She joined us in bed getting between us. We lay there doing nothing probably a little nervous about what we were about to do. Eventually she took hold of my penis and no doubt his also and asked us if we were in the bed to fuck her or to sleep with her & then said she thought guests should be first pulling at him to roll on top of her. There was no hesitation on his part. He was on her and in her and started to fuck her in no time. He fucked her for about 5 minutes, rolled from her and I immediately replaced him slipping my penis into the soaking warm pussy he had just left. It was an unbelievable sensation I had never previously experienced. I was like a boy having sex for the first time as I exploded into her within seconds of entering her. I rolled from her to be replaced by him. He was in her this time for a good 20 minutes, as I was after replacing him when he had ejaculated another load into her.
It is no exaggeration, the pair of us fucked her for several hours.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued the relationship for almost 5 years while we were working overseas. We often had our sessions on a secluded beach at night. She at times asked if she could have an evening alone with him, which I complied with.
I relished that he was in love with her but could do nothing about that. At the same time I realized that she was in love with his penis and the sex it was giving her. It as obvious to me that he was giving her sex like I never had or could after all he had a penis that was almost twice the size of mine. We had no hopes for a future with him, I guess we used him to satisfy our sexual lust. It finished when we left the island I was working on.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It lasted for almost 5 years

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was a most order full sexual experience

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think that casual sex I great if you & your partner are in agreement with it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it

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