by Ceren

Gender: Female
Age: 34
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Istanbul,TR
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Software Analyst
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Bicurious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Long Time Coming

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 Years Ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? FWB

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Lets call the guy Mert. 5’9,short dark hair,short full beard,average build,big brown eyes.5 years younger than me.Calm,quiet and intelligent.

He and I were coworkers on a project that lasted 1.5 years.Lots of overtime spent together.We developed a good chemistry during that time.We took the lunch and coffee breaks often together.

Neither of us made a move during that time.I liked the guy but didn’t really think of him as a sexual partner.He was younger than me and we were coworkers.I guess he didn’t make a move because he was seeing other girls or he was thinking like me.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began after the project had finished at the celebration dinner.

He told me that he had accepted a job offer from another company now that the project had finished.He said he wanted to keep in touch and talked about how great it had been working with me.

When the event was close to ending he wrapped his arm around and placed his hand on my thigh and said “You are coming home with me tonight” with desire in his eyes.I didn’t resist of course.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started getting handsy in the taxi.When we got to his apartment he took me straight to his bedroom.

I straddled him and we started making out.He then laid me on the bed and went down on me.He was good with his tongue and mouth.

After i came i started to blow him.We then had sex in various positions.It was good,we had chemistry in the bed as well.I came again before he did.He came in the condom.

We cuddled for a bit and went for round two.This time it was rougher and he used his hands more.It felt good.Rhytmic,mechanical pounding.I came again.He came in my mouth.

After that we cleaned up.We cuddled and chatted then went to sleep.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Both of us did multiple times.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Didn’t discuss STIs,he used a condom during penetration.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I hadn’t had sex for a few weeks and i liked him.The timing was good too.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We had about 3 drinks that night.We were a bit light headed.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We woke up and had breakfast.I kissed him goodbye and went home.

We proceeded to have sex about 5 times a month for a year.We sometimes hung out too.I got serious with another man later on so i stopped seeing him.We still communicate via text or facebook though.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my close friends.They were happy for me,one even said that we should become a couple.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.It was very satisfying.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was relieving the tension after a long time.The sex was very fulfilling as well.

I don’t think there is a negative side to it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Thank you for creating this site.Good place to share experiences and do research.

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