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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Melbourne
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Desk stuff
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 27
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall, broad shoulders, white guy with dark curly hair. He contacted me on a dating website, and we had a short exchange of messages before swapping phone numbers.

We discussed what we each want- I have just come out of a long relationship and he’s not looking for a steady girlfriend, but we are both interested in a casual relationship, based on sex, but warm and friendly, too. We agreed to meet and start hooking up if we liked each other in person.

We had 4 or 5 attempts to meet that one or the other had to cancel. I was beginning to think he wasn’t into it, but I told him where I was working yesterday and he suggested a place for a drink after work.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at a bar, and drank beer. We started some small talk, including whether we each looked like our dating site pictures (we did). He had a second drink and I had a water, because I didn’t want to feel tipsy.

We talked, and he asked if I had any plans for the rest of the evening. I told him, no. He asked if I wanted another drink, and I looked him straight in the eye and told him no. He asked, did I want a water? I smiled, kept staring, and told him I was getting bored.

He asked if I wanted to go to his place, I nodded, and we left together.

We drove 10 minutes in my car. We flirted on the way- I told his I’d been stuck in a stuffy room all day and probably smelt bad, he leaned in with his nose on my neck and told me I smelt good. He put his hand on my leg as I was driving and we laughed when I nearly hit the car in front.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started by kissing gently, then faster and harder, and then moved on to using our mouths on the other’s body, including genitals. I asked him to kiss my back and he asked me to lick his balls.

After some time doing this, I told him I wanted his cock inside me, and he said he wanted that too. That’s a pretty sexy way of giving consent, don’t you think?
We had penetrative sex in a few positions, and while I was on top of him I had an orgasm. We moved around for a bit, and then he said he was close to coming. He asked where I wanted him to come, and I said inside me. I like to feel and see my partners orgasm, which I did.

We kissed and touched each other, drank water, and talked for a while. We talked about !I’ve stuff, relationships, and the sex we just had. I told him i like it when he told me what he liked. We sped up the kissing, and then has more oral and penetrative sex. I had a second orgasm on top, and then we took a break. I asked if he wanted to come, and he asked me to stand in the doorway with him behind. The door banged us a bit and we laughed. We tried a few more positions before giving exhausted. He said he was getting close but couldn’t come.

We talked and touched some more and he suggested he stay over at my place on a weekend night so we could have a long session in bed. I agreed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He asked if I thought I’d like to do it again, and I said yes. We talked about days we could meet. We kissed goodbye and I left.

I felt great since. We have exchanged messages and plan to meet again this week.

I like his body, I like talking to him, and I like the sex we had. He also wants to touch and talk, and maybe eat and watch a movie together, which i want too.

I feel happy I have found someone who wants the same things in a non-committed relationship. I hope we can meet regularly while we both want this.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Warmth and orgasms.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? No bad things.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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