by Adam

Gender: Male
Age: 31
Race/ethnicity: Chinese
Current location: Ubi
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Sales manager
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Free thinker
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Explorer
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? More than 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Nil

Long Time Friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? A month ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? she is a average female at the age of 40. didn’t expect much as i m not so picky as everyone aged too. she was a chat buddy tat mis-contact for almost 2years suddenly contact me. maybe we r adults, tat y we share thoughts freely n open so i know she was a horny person before we hookup.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? we were in a cinema for a movie, suddenly she touches me n i know she couldn’t stand anymore so we proceed to hotel. it was partially planned, just didn’t think it happen tat fast.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? we shower and touching/kissing involved. I performed oral to her 1st and she enjoy every single moment maybe i do enjoy oral to women and kinda mastered the skills. It was an interesting moment when having sex wif her. she react quite strongly as she say had been more than 1year never been entered by anyone because she is a single mom. and i did rub her ass using my finger as i m not sure if she is ready for me to enter her anus and i m glad she like it. Never had a chance to enter her wif my dick as she say mine is a bit big for her so we continue the normal way.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Both of us have orgasm. Inside a rubber of course.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Rubber is for sure as a fuck buddy would never put our buddy into trouble for any reason.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Because i believe women has needs as much as men does. It is just they are shy to say it.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? She had some beer but i only had a sip of them.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We remain as friends hoping there might be another chance to do the same thing.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I did tell a friend, he seems to be surprise for my acceptable level over women to have sex. But as i respect n understand women, i do think everyone had needs and myself also never perfect.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, both of us wanted to hooked up is just this happen almost 2years later. i m very careful when bringing up casual sex to any other female because not many is able to accept these and often these messages will be publish to the would criticise as pervert.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope. Never. In fact i m glad another women willing to express their need to another man and leads to happy ending.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing of this hookup was every single moment of the sex part. It has never change my thinking about casual hookup but giving me more hope for it. Casual sex was a must because pay sex doesn’t comes with emotion and the one comes with emotion often trying to ruin a family. So casual sex is needed because both parties understands each other needs and mentally prepared for each other.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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