by Fer

Gender: Female
Age: 27
Race/ethnicity: Argentinian
Current location: Spain
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Waitress
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Lookin’ In The Store

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is tall, long hair, dark eyes, he looks like a 70s musician.
I met him in his own gig, we talked some while.
Before the meeting, we repeated in his next tour.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Never planned it, I went to a gig, I was in the first row, he stared me all the time, and after the gig, he came to me to “talk”.
I guess he started, and I continued.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Was vaginal, I felt great, got the big prize, the frontman of a famous rock’n’roll band.
I didn’t have any orgasm, he had, he was a good lover, he tried to have eye contact all the time and was very sweet.
We made it on the floor of the store of a concert hall.
We mostly talked (well we talk about 20 mins, then we had fun) about music, specially 70s music, Aerosmith, Kiss, AC/DC.
He found out that a girl with music knowledge is catchy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We use condom, we didn’t have time to discuss that. 
I made the tests some months after, and the results were OK.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? My reasons… I wanted to have fun, I found him attractive, and sometimes it’s great mix your two biggest passions. Music and sex.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Nope. We were both sober.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great after, the following days I felt empty (it usually happens me).
No expectations of nothing with him. We talked a couple of times after that, and we met again on his next tour, everything is ok between us.
I still find it curious, and nice. Was a great experience.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? With my friends, they laughed, they say I’m crazy, but the truth is that, that one it wasn’t the first time that I did it, and I still do it.
Their reactions are always the same, they see me like a musician’s slayer.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Of course it was.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope, I have no regrets about it.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing… I had fun.
The worst… Nope, everything was positive. 
This hookup didn’t change anything, I love casual sex, and I’m the same as before, with more age, but the same.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? You only live once, and you have to enjoy life!

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