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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? France
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Discovery mode.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 19
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

I was looking for a sub for entertainment and..

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 Days

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She had cleary stated that she does not want to be contacted; I saw her visiting my profile a few times and asked back if she liked it. One thing led to another and we had a date. A blonde lady with all the right curves in the right places, a real woman with a cute smile..

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began on an online dating site (which I never thought would lead to a real contact). I took a business trip into town and we sort of agreed to meet and.. see.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We met to dine together, discussed, and at one point in time I asked if she would join me in my room. She did. I kissed her tentatively in the elevator and enjoyed it..in the room we slowly undressed, kissed a lot.I admired her body, smoothly shaved, fresh – she had had the day off and was fresh, clean, smelling well.. We started off on the sofa, first kissing, playing with her breasts an nipples, she was rubbing her pelvis on mine, enjoying the feel..then she slid down, took off my pants and started to please me with her mouth. After a few minutes I was fully hard and finally undressed the last bit, put her on the bed and licked her – she went off ballistic into orgasm after a few minutes..apparently foreplay was good ;^)
I took a condom and entered her while she was still in the throws of the first orgasm and sent her in the next one. She started to buck and writhe, to the point where she pushed me out of her, I reentered and tried to keep up the pace (know I know what riding a bronco means..)…at one moment I took her while she lay on her side, the lower leg stretched, the upper leg crooked up, so I could fully enter her and touch everything..she went off again, we ended up by me taking her from the back. She kneeled on the bed, I rammed, literally, from behind until she complained about soreness and asked to be taken in the ass. Who could refuse? ..take another half hour of fucking, a shower, sex under the shower, her sitting on the ground and playing with my hyper-sensitive dick..and a last romp for half an hour when she wanted to leave..brought her to the train station and we exchanged a few whatsapps for the night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt excellent, she as well. I shared the story with my wife, who knew of the encounter and was aware. I truly appreciate her as a person and sex partner and we will certainly keep in contact and meet again some time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My wife, friends. Positively.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Her orgasms. How her face changed, when she enjoyed sex, she became so much younger, fulfilled, happy. The whole experience about being able to connect physically and emotionally in such a short amount of time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I got confirmed that what I like is damned good.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She expected me to be more dominant, but that was out of question as she has neither submissive nor masochist tendencies. So we made love as equals. Brilliant.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If I could experience this more often, I would to it. And I think many people would feel better if they could accept and experience their sexual wishes and desires.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Funny 😉 I like to write porn stories as well, so sharing reality is easy!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!