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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Full time university student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 0
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Lost My Virginity On A Tinder Hookup.

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had matched w John, a Latino male, on New Year’s Eve on tinder. I messaged him first and the conversation was pretty casual. When things began to get a little sexual I mentioned to him that I was a virgin who has never dated, kissed anyone or done anything physical with any guy for that matter. I expected him to instantly unmatch but instead he encouraged the idea that I try opening myself up to those things. We added each other on snap and after a 2 days exchanged some photos (of me topless and of his dick). One thing led to the next and we decided that we would meet at his place and drink and see where it leads to.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I would say we both had a role in deciding we wanted to drink together. He wanted to have sex as well and was very vocal about it but was also very respectful and told me that If I was uncomfortable with anything at all then we could just drink and hang out and he wouldn’t be mad. I was really nervous about this as I had never had sex. I was worried about tasting bad (if ya know what I mean) or smelling bad or not bringing him any pleasure or being too inexperienced. But throughout it all he was supportive and reiterated that I was in charge of deciding what would happen. So around 1 AM I pretended I was going to my friends house to spend the night and instead went to his place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Upon arriving at his place, we started drinking a little bit of alcohol and making small talk and joking around. He was a really funny guy! I was extremely nervous though and was being closed off. He would make small flirty touches like brushing my arm or back and I wouldn’t do anything back. Then after a while he told me to close my eyes.. I did but knew he was leaning in for a kiss and got scared and turned away. I told him I needed a few minutes to mentally prepare. He was super nice about it and kept telling me how if I wanted to just sleep instead I could but I was really determined to do a lot more so eventually I said ok. He kissed me and we began making out. A lot of tongue was involved and he bit my lip a lot ( his biting was AMAZING) he then moved down to kissing/licking my neck, ears and around my face. He asked if I liked it and I said yes, and asked if he wanted to see my tits. He took off my shirt and bra and I leaned back on his bed as he was sucking my titties and kissing around my stomach for a while. He kept moving down, took off my jeans, saw how wet I was through my underwear and took those off too. He then began eating me out (felt amazing) and while licking my clit stuck a finger up my ass. I was shocked at how much more turned on it made me. He then started fingering me ( I was super tight being a virgin) to start loosening up the whole for later. Because it was so tight it hurt a bit and I told him. Afterwards, I took off his pants as he laid down and I gave him a blow job (watched a video tutorial beforehand). To my surprise, I got him really hard quite quickly and even was able to deepthroat without gagging. He then asked me to sit on his face, so I did and he ate me out some more, and then finally he put on a condom to start fucking me. I was extremelllyyyyy tight and it took at least 10 min and some additional lube just for him to make it all the way inside. He fucked me faster and faster and it was hurting a lot, so eventually he stopped. We were both hella exhausted after so still naked, we went to sleep in his bed and cuddled all night. When I woke up (my back was facing toward him) he started caressing my ass and then fingering me once again. This time he was able to fit multiple fingers in and went faster and faster until I came. It felt sooooo good, personally was my favorite part.
(Side note, the night when he fucked me I bled a lot after and then bled again in the morning)
Overall, despite my lack of experience, John was hella experienced and supportive and made me feel so much better about my body and insecurities. I don’t at all regret losing my virginity to someone I barely know when it managed to turn out this satisfying

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day we talked again as usual. I’m going back to college and was only here for break so while we’re still cool, I doubt I’ll ever see him again

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked about this with my friends beforehand who are far more experienced. They thought it was a great idea as long as were safe. They tracked my location and had me send updates to make sure all was well

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wish I was less shy and initiated more

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I used to frown upon casual sex but now I definitely see the appeal

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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