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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Francisco
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? accounting
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? open minded
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

lovely hotel evening

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Man, mid 30s, about 5’10”. Stocky, dark hair, light beard. Met on CL, was looking for a m4m hookup involving panties. He was into it. We messaged for a while, and he felt like a good fit.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had two pair of panties I’d bought. He came over to my hotel room. It was dark, but the window open to the city. He changed into one pair of panties; I had the other on. We planned it via email.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He came in, stepped into the bathroom and put on the panties. He came out to me in the room, I stood up and leaned on the dresser. We embraced. He was stocky, but gentle. I was at ease almost immediately. He said he was nervous. We kissed and it was lovely. He was a very nice kisser. We felt each other up. He had a fairly large cock – 7″+ and thick. After a bit of kissing he knelt and pulled my cock out of my panties and licked it gently. Then he gave me the most wonderful blowjob, deep, wet and patient. I just enjoyed it for several minutes.

Then we moved to the window and I sat on the windowsill, my back to the city. He stood on the daybed and blew me some more. I loved hugging his head down on my cock. I then had him lay on the daybed and I went down on him. I had to go slowly to suck his cock, but he was very patient and moaned intensely. I blew him and licked him for a while. Then I crawled up on him and we kissed. I nestled his cock against my ass.He pulled me up and kissed my cock some more.

I suggested we move to the bed and he asked if we could 69. We did that, but his crotch was a little funky, so I did not enjoy it much. It was ok, as he was happy to deepthroat my cock more, and I had to pull out as I was so excited. He rimmed me through my panties and I love that. I stroked his cock and then turned around.

We cuddled and kissed for a few minutes. Then I asked him if he wanted to fuck me in the ass. I get so turned on saying that, “Do you want to fuck me in the ass, baby?”. He said yes, so I got the condom and lube. I lubed up my ass while he put on the condom, and then I lubed his cock also. He started to penetrate me, but I said I wanted to ride him. So I got on him and it took several minutes for me to get his large cock in my ass. When I did it felt so amazing. We both were groaning and moaning. Slowly, i started to ride his cock, and very quickly it just felt lovely, riding up and down on his cock, he was stroking my cock and I would lean over and kiss him. I felt so sexy and wonderful.

After a few minutes we flipped over and I held my legs up and he entered me again. I was ready and he slipped right in. I loved it. He was thrusting into my ass, but he was gentle and so very turned on. I asked him to stroke me, and he stroked my cock while he fucked me in the ass. As I came he pulled out, ripped off the condom and came on my stomach. So we came at the same time, on my stomach and panties. It was just wonderful.

We relaxed for a moment, then thanked each other, he changed and left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Very litte. As he dressed we chatted a bit. I was only visiting for the one night. He left and that was that.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I love the feeling of having a cock in my ass, and he gave an incredible blowjob.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I am not very into kissing men, or men’s bodies in general. Also, I wish this did not have to be so covert.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Did not change my attitude at all.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish we could all be more open about it. it would be safer both physically and emotionally.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great, and it is my only outlet for sharing these experiences as well as realizing that I am not alone.

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