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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Lucy Has Lenny For Lunch

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve known him for several years; this isn’t the first time things have happened between us. We have both have had partners for years, but we can’t seem to shake the attraction between us. I think it’s the excitement that keeps us occasionally coming back to each other. Who knows if it will ever disappear.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We text all the time, sometimes hundreds of times a week, other times once a month. It always begins innocently chatting about what we’ve been up to and ends in full 50 shades of grey style explanations of what we’d like to do to each other. This time was no different. However, he was so worked up he suddenly texted “if I came to where you are now, would you get on your knees and live up to your promises?” Excited and nervously I told him “yes” and gave him the address of my parents’ house, who were out for a while.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He (Lenny) was a sales rep for quite a well-known company. He rocked up to my parents’ house, parking his recognizable branded car down the road and in full stealth mode walked up to the door clipboard in hand. As I opened the door I felt a bit sick with excitement; I always feel this way around him. “Good afternoon Miss Lucy. I’ve come to quote you on xxxx.” I liked this game. I pulled him in, kissing him hard and felt him harden almost instantly against me. With perfect brown skin and eyes, a smooth body and hands that know how to drive me wild. I could feel myself get soaking wet with excitement. Lenny is sexy as fuck. He asked to see my tits, and in return, I demanded he dropped his pants and sat on the couch. I knew how much he loved me sucking his cock and that was what he had come for…a quick blow job on my parents’ sofa before they came home. I went to work sucking and licking his beautiful cock, running my hands along his sexy stomach and chest. I LOVE sucking cock. He filmed me with his phone, trying to hold the camera still as he moaned while I sucked. I gave him the go-ahead to cum down my throat, which I could tell turned him on even more as he exploded into my mouth while holding my hand and arching his back with pleasure. Lenny doesn’t like to take and not give back, so he asked me to climb onto him, I rode him for a little while, kissing his lips and neck, but not long enough to finish, as we got a little nervous that my parents would return. Quickly, we got dressed, I told him goodbye, and he left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t hear from Lenny for a little while, but when I did, everything was normal. We agreed never to do something like this again, and so far there hasn’t been another meetup. Although, we do both see each other in group situations a lot and have to act completely normal, which can be hard sometimes because honestly, Lenny makes me fucking crazy. I can’t get him out of my system no matter how hard I try.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one ever

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting to suck that gorgeous dick again

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think monogamy is such an unnatural thing; it doesn’t exist in the animal world. And honestly, I look at all the bored people in marriages, myself included, and wonder how much happier they’d be if marriage were the emotional connection but the physical connection had a more relaxed approach.

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