by Jamie

Gender: Male
Age: 29
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: UK
Highest education received: High school diploma
Occupation: Sales
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20-30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Lust at First Sight

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Joanne had dark red hair, slim, nice body. 3 years older than me. She is my mates cousin (I’m no longer in contact with this mate). I met her one night when out with this mate at a local nightclub. They seen each other and started talking. There was an instant attraction between us although neither of us acted upon it that night.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On another night out with my mate perhaps 2 months after the initial meeting. I went to another friends house, this friend was kind of hooking up with Joanne although it was nothing serious at all – they hadn’t slept together or anything. Joanne was also out that night. We went into town for a drinking session. It was very clear that there was no chemistry between Joanne and my friend Wes. It got to a point in the night where Wes told me that I should make a move on her as he obviously picked up on the signals she was sending me. The alcohol was flowing fast and we all got a bit drunk. We all ended up losing each other and I was wondering the city centre on my own. I phoned my mate Dean (Joanne’s cousin) and arranged to meet up with him again. When we met up he told me that Joanne had went home as she had too much to drink, at this point I got her number and gave her a call. She was in a taxi so I convinced her to come back as we were heading to a house party. As soon as she arrived in the taxi I got in and she joined me in the back. No words spoken we just started kissing in the back. Got to the house party and continued what we started in the taxi. Left the house party and went back to Joanne’s. Unfortunately Dean came back as well. Me and Joanne went through to bed….

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went through to bed but it was awkward with her cousin being in the next room. I cuddled in to her from behind and began fingering her. Played with her clit until she was soaking, she was moaning with pleasure but trying to keep quiet as well. I then stuck 2 fingers inside her and found her g spot playing with that. Played with her for what seemed an eternity then decided to stop to give my hand a rest. At that point she complained that I had stopped as she was ready to orgasm.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Went back inside her with my fingers and continued where I left off. Within a minute or so I felt her muscles contracting and she let out an almighty scream of pleasure signalling her orgasm. Her previous efforts to keep the volume of her moaning down were made redundant as she screamed with pleasure.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? In future hook ups we used condoms, barring once or twice where we used nothing.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Young single guy attracted to a young single female

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Lots of alcohol. Occasional cocaine use.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We lost contact for a couple of months as I lost my phone and it was before social media really took off. I was out again with my mate a couple of months after first hook up and he told me that Joanne had been asking about me. I got her number off him again and text her that night. The following Friday night she text me when i was out having drinks and we agreed to meet at her place – this time just the two of us. As soon as I got to hers we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. Proceeded to have a wild night of sex. She had a body to die for and the sex was out of this world. I used to love ending up back at hers every weekend. We continued the relationship for many months. Eventually ending it as she wanted to get more serious but I couldn’t commit as she had a child from a previous relationship and it wasn’t for me at the time.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told all my friends.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex was amazing. The problem was that she had a young child and I couldn’t commit.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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