Race/ethnicity: Eger, Hungary
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? about 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? about 5 years
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? one-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met the guy first at a party where we started talking a bit, but I didn’t expect anything. I just liked his looks, and I think I couldn’t hide that I was a bit attracted to him. We didn’t have any friends in common.
Nothing happened until a huge house party of a not-so-close friend where we bumped into each other again.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It happened at that party, where we met again, and about 5 minutes later we were actually fucking.
How it happened? I still don’t exactly understand, but the facts are the following: we started talking, and walking around, and we were getting to an abandoned area, and I told that I am wondering what is behind the door, why don’t we just check it out? It seemed fun, and I didn’t expect anything, especially not what happened afterwards.
So we got to that abandoned area of the building, which was a longer corridor and some rooms, and while I was talking, he stopped me, pushed me to the wall and kissed me very passionately. We somehow ended up having sex on the floor of one of the rooms.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We didn’t take much clothes off. He was sitting on the floor, took out his penis of his trousers, and I sit in his lap, and started riding him. It was nice, but I don’t remember if we had orgasms. I don’t remember much details, the best part was him pulling me to the wall and making out with me, without me predicting it… I always get wet in like 2 seconds, if I happen to realize that someone has a serious crush on me. The sex itself was ok, I guess, but we were both pretty drunk, so I don’t remember details. We got back to the party right after the sex, changed numbers, but nothing happened afterwards.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Nothing. We were not very careful, but he didn’t ejaculate in me, I know that for sure.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Being single, crazy, stupid, adventurous, drunk, desperate, and very hormonal..
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol. I guess quite a lot. But I guess without alcohol it would never have happened.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I texted him once afterwards, because I had the misbelief, that if I let a guy from nowhere fuck me at a random party, then the next day he will be willing to buy me flowers and take me out to dinner… Well, not. But it is better like this. I was not very passionate about him either.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was completely unexpected, very fast, crazy, also useless and meaningless. But the fact that someone wants to have sex with me right there right then, was just very good for my ego.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret it. I am happy that I had these things, though it is not the typical story I will tell my grandchildren.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was that it was unexpected. The worst was.. well the sex itself was not that good, but I was always more into the the way that leads two people to the bedroom (or floor, in my case). It didn’t change how I think, as that was not my first one-night stand.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I was using pheromones actually, for the first and last time in my life. I still don’t know if this fact had anything to do with what happened. Although what happened was actually pretty incredible and fast.
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