What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Transportation
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 33
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
Maintaining A 100% Record
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? H was someone I’d known for a few years. We met in a chat room back in the day and had gone on one date which didn’t lead anywhere, but we kept in touch through MSN and then texting and social media. She was pretty, although she’d put a bit of weight on over the years. She was a similar age to me, I think.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We’d been in and out of contact for years and I’d just come out of a relationship of more than five years and was feeling a little low. I knew through conversations, that H was a pretty sexual girl. She’d told me some of the things she’d gotten up to, and I reckoned her numbers were probably approaching triple figures! She had a tongue piercing all the time I knew her and I’d made comments from time to time about how having one normally meant the girl liked to give head (no doubt a gross generalisation, but H readily agreed that she did). As I said, I was low, and she was trying to cheer me up via text. The conversation turned crude and I made comments about her liking to give head and I said how I didn’t always cum from a blowjob. She said she’d never not made a guy cum from a blowjob and that she’d sucked a lot of dicks. I said I thought I could break her 100% record, but she said there was no chance. I told her to prove it, and she said to give her an hour and she’d be at mine.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When she got to mine, we made some small talk on the sofa. She played a bit hard to get, which I thought was odd as she’d just driven 40 miles to prove she could make me cum from a BJ. Before long though, we were making out and my hand was inside her bra. A short while later it was inside her pants and then in her pussy. She gasped when my fingers brushed her clit. A short while later, my jeans and pants were down, my cock was out, and she had started sucking my dick.
She was awesome and clearly knew how to handle a dick. She went slow to start with and was using her tongue bar to good effect. She picked up the pace after a little while and started using her hand to stroke me too. I asked her if I should tell her when I was close (I didn’t know if she swallowed or what) and she nodded yes without removing my dick from her mouth. She picked up the pace again, and before long, I was panting and warning her I was close. Then, she somehow found a new level which I’ve never felt before or since, and by then, there was nothing in the world that was going to stop me from exploding, which I did almost immediately in her mouth. She swallowed and continued sucking, which, because I was super sensitive from just cuming, led to me screaming “stop” to her which she did. She lifted her head up and said “told you!”
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She left shortly after, although I think she would have been up for fucking too. I was feeling low/selfish and had just cum, so I wasn’t too worried about her at the time, which I now really regret because I think she’d probably have been an amazing fuck.
When I moved back to the town she lived in, she came over to mine after a night out and we slept in the same bed. I tried it on a couple of times, but she didn’t seem interested, so I went to my spare bed. She left in the night – I should probably have waited until the morning. We also went for dinner in a pub and she invited me to see her new flat, after which she told me was to get to fuck me, but I declined.
We sort of drifted apart after that and she got a boyfriend. I saw her once at work and he was there, but she seemed a bit distant. I got a few weird texts from her phone asking questions about stuff in previous texts which I’m sure was from him because the grammar and spelling were poor and not in keeping with how she wrote. I later saw on facebook she was engaged and pregnant and then she disappeared from all social media. I hope she’s ok and not in something abusive or where he controls her. Perhaps I should text her to see if she’s ok.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends who were generally impressed.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was the best blowjob of my life, even to this day.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not fucking her.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It got me back in the game!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? All good as long as people are open about their expectations and play safely/sensibly.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great site for reads.
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