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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

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How long ago did this hookup happen? Two years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The first woman I ever met up with for the express purpose of getting her pregnant was one I met from a Facebook group that brought together sperm donors and women looking for sperm. She was very attractive, 34 at the time, and was married to a man who had an almost zero sperm count. We only corresponded via email and text before we met. I was very nervous and really did not know what to expect, but I faked being relaxed and confident when we finally met up at the hotel.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met on the Facebook group. She contacted me directly and we corresponded. The planning was me getting an evening off and her and the husband coming into town, getting a hotel room and meeting me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had all agreed ahead of time that there was to be just intercourse, with as little fanfare as possible. That was the plan, but it didn’t work out that way. What struck me about this woman was that she was so really beautiful, shapely and feminine. How could I not be turned on by her? After a bit of small talk and the like, her husband said that we had better get on with things and they kissed goodbye and he left the room. We were both nervous and I took off my shirt and then she took off hers, then my pants, then her skirt, then my socks and underwear and then she did the same. I was instantly aroused. I pulled back the bed covers and lay there. She came closer and lay down beside me. Our original plan for just intercourse was behind us and then I kissed her, Needless to say, I was all over her and we went at it for a good hour. I came to this beautiful woman twice. This was a really amazing feeling, the first time I had ever been sexually active for the specific purpose of impregnation.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt pretty good about myself. No, I felt fantastic!!! My manhood was confirmed in my eyes. I’m a pretty athletic guy, playing hockey regularly and she thought I was very hot. Since that first meeting, we met up three more evenings and they now have a daughter by me. We have discreetly kept in contact with everything. Only the three of us know this and we plan on keeping it that way. They want another baby by me in the months ahead.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Exchanged recent STI test results

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy/convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just her, her husband and myself.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It started me on my path of being a reliable Natural Insemination/Artificial Insemination Sperm donor. I have done it numerous times since then. I get the sexual pleasure and feel satisfied that I am helping out infertile couples or singles wanting babies.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I questioned the morality of it. I wondered what the future would be.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I can combine casual sex and make something positive out of it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I now really enjoy the thought of impregnating women in need. They have traveled from some distances for me. They have flown me to Europe to impregnate them too. My first time in that hotel stated it all.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If everyone is a consenting adult, then it’s fine with me. In every culture since the cave man’s time, people have engaged in casual sex. I just want to see that people get STI testing and be careful there.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Hey, it’s great! Read about me any time.

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