What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 16
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Making A Married Man Happy

How long ago did this hookup happen? one month

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I went out with a friend for some beers. We sat at the counter in this small dark bar, more that kind of a bar that you visit at the end of your night, lot of elderly people. A younger man sat next to me. He had red hair and a beard, around 30 years old, I guess. We began to chat, because he was wearing a t-shirt of a band that I also know. We started to talk about this band, but it got flirty really fast. He was attractive to me, so I was pushing the game a little bit.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My friend left. The guy and me got a little bit more kinky in our talks. When he touched my leg I realized he was wearing a ring. So I asked him if he told me he’s married. Of course first I was skeptical, but it felt also like we already crossed the line. He started to tell me how much he wanted me now and yes I have to admit that it turned me on. I was stroking his leg and could immediately feel that there was a little reaction. The way he looked at me told me that he was really horny, and I was too. He whispered in my ear that he wanted to fuck me on the toilet. We went to the toilets, but as it was only a small bar it was too obvious, so we decided to look for a spot outside.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were heading down the street just a little bit. He grabbed my ass while we walked. In the driveway of a private underground garage he pushed me down on my knees. My back at the wall, him standing in the driveway he pulled down his trousers and his hard dick jumped out. I opened my mouth as he told me and started sucking his dick. He held my head with both of his hands and looked me lustfully in the eyes. This whole situation, that he was a little dominant, that it happened in public (okay it was in the middle of the night and no one was around, but still) made me really horny so I started to masturbate with one hand. With my other hand I took care of his balls or his dick. He told me how good I was and this made me suck even stronger. When he pulled down my shirt and started to squeeze my nipples I was already close to coming. It really turned me on that I knew that his wife was at home sleeping while he fucked my face, telling me this was the blowjob he was always looking for. As I really love balls I started to suck them when he let me. He rubbed his dick on my face and this is when I came. He then pushed his dick deep in my mouth again and came soon after and told me to swallow, which I did.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He told me again how much he liked it and how happy he is about this incident and that I was a cute but slutty young woman. We were walking a bit and laughing because we were still aroused. He gave me a hug to say goodbye as our ways back home seperated.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Submission / Relinquishing power, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Yes you could say its unfair that I consented even I knew he was married. But as I do not know anything about their marriage I will not judge and rely in my impression, that he was man who knew exatly what he was doing, what he wanted and that he had got things straightened out with himself.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is definetly a way to learn about yourself, sex, and your desires with own experiences (in contrast to porn). Try and find out, do what you enjoy, but stay safe 🙂

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