Current location: Los Angeles
Highest education received: High school diploma
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? 100% romantic preference for women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? One month
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was in Forever 21 when I was. Kinda young. Turned out to be nineteen. Brown hair, long. Tank top, shorts and flip flops. Blue eyes. Hot. Never had seen her before. I complimented her on a blouse she was looking at and we talked for awhile.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She pinged some for me and I was definitely attracted to her. So I definitely came on to her enough so that when I invited her for coffee she would know what might be coming. We had coffee at Starbuck’s in the Mall. We walked outside and she told me she was going to community college. I told her what I did and she said she had recognized me from a commercial I did. Which blew my mind. I’m not that well known and I was definitely dressed tomboy not glam. So I said, look, if you don’t like girls don’t take this wrong, but I’d like to see you sometime. She asked me if I was asking her out and before I could say she said well, the answer is why not?
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I invited her to go back to my apartment and go swimming & told her I would loan her a swimsuit. She was cool with that. We walked from Third Street to my place and went up to my apartment. We flirted a little more and I pushed her against the refrigerator and kissed her and she definitely kissed back. I could tell she was into it. Which is a big deal because a lot of girls pretend to be but aren’t. (LA syndrome.) I took her to the sofa and we made out and I was definitely more dom than her. I took her top off and pushed her back on the cushions and sucked her boobs and then pulled her pants off and fingered her. She pulled my top off. I never got a chance to do oral because she came. I took my jeans off and masturbated while she kissed me and I got off that way.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Both of us.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Sex.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Nope.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I got her number and saw her a couple of times. Very hot body. I went down on her and that was cool and she returned the favor. But she was a little dumb or had a different life experience so it only lasted a couple of weeks.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A couple of my friends who know I pick up girls got off mentally on it.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Both wanted it. She is bi, by the way, so really it was just funtime for her.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Her body and getting her off. Getting a girl off is always the best.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I am developing a conflict between my desire for romance and my addiction to little flings with hot younger girls. I am afraid I am getting jaded emotionally. Not sure this is a healthy pattern.
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