What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Virginia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Human Services
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Married Adventure

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife is 5′ 3″, long blonde hair, blue eyes, 36C tits, full lips, and a few extra pounds. Our online friend was 5’5″, brunette, brown eyes, 36DD tits, full lips, and a few extra pounds. Both women have clean shaven pussies, one brazillian waxed.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met online and agreed to meet up after months of flirting, sexting, and trading pics of our private parts. We identified a hotel, drove to the airport to pick her up, and spent the night together.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Things moved slow at first then I asked if anything was going up happen and they both asked what I wanted to see. I told them we could start with them kissing, and did they ever!! Then there was sucking each other’s nipples and plenty of oral between them before including me. I gave as much oral as I received and there was vaginal penetration for both. Whatever could be done with a guy and two women we did until I exploded!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now?  We all cuddled for the night and the next morning before taking her to catch her flight we stopped by a local park and found a semi-secluded spot where my wife initiated oral then passed me on to our friend to finish and take a mouthful!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only the people involved

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We all enjoyed each others company very much.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It had to end!!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general?  No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? We are very open to sharing sexual experiences but the idea is so taboo in our community it’s near impossible to find willing participants.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!