What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Syracuse
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? More than 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Alex had shoulder length dirty blonde hair, she was a thin girl with [for what I could tell] big natural tits and the first day she started in the department I was instantly attracted to her. She wasn’t pretty but she was cute, had a killer body and I found her incredibly sexy- the way she walked, talked and handled herself in a department full of men. We would talk casually and flirt, she was 27 at the time, married, two kids, dog, etc. I fantasize about every hot chick I see and this was no different. I don’t pursue married women so I never thought I would fuck her other than in my mind and she didn’t seem like the type that would really screw around anyway.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were sitting next to each other at a computer workstation on a Friday afternoon. I was entering work orders and she just asked me out of the blue what I was doing after work. I said “nothing” just to see where she was going with her question. She said “wanna’ do something?” Since I have zero willpower to turn down sex we made plans to meet at a shopping center parking lot and go from there. I still never really thought she would show up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After meeting up we drove separate cars to a motel quite a few miles north from where she was comfortable being. It was early evening, 6ish. I went in to pay and get a key and she came in with me, I wasn’t expecting her to do that. She had changed into a short beige cargo skirt and a tank top when she went home to let her dog out. I didn’t ask about any of the details of her arrangement to be able to be here with me, I didn’t want to know. We went to the room, unlocked the door and immediately ended up on the bed nearest the window. I was on top of her, passionately making out and feeling each other up. She was good, eager and fun. We removed her top and bra and took off my shirt. More kissing and feeling, smelling her hair, sucking on her titties, kissing her neck, licking her flat belly. She was feeling my cock through my shorts. Got the rest of the clothing barricades removed, fumbled reluctantly for a condom in the pocket of my shorts now on the floor and then worked my way inside her beautiful shaved pussy. We started off with some slow grinding missionary and kissing, then I revved it up with the hard pounding with her legs over my shoulders. She scratched the hell out of my arms, back, and chest. She rode me reverse cowgirl and I got a great view of her nice little ass. She pulled me up behind her to fuck her doggy-style in a cool one-move-deal so I knew she had some experience with that. She told me to fuck her harder and deeper- now I love to be dominant but I also love a woman that knows what she wants and I certainly deliver. She was definitely a seasoned veteran and that’s what I like. I grabbed her hips, grabbed her hair and fucked her with long, deep hard strokes from behind. Harder, she would say, she could take a pounding.

She loved to be called a slut and made sure that I knew that she was one. The way her body reacted and the noise she made when I would call her that was so damn hot. I love sluts! They are my weakness in this world and I use the word in the best meaning possible. We fucked in all kinds of positions for quite a while but she was a little too loud with her screams, etc where it was hard to tell if it was genuine or theatrical. It doesn’t really matter to me but it was remarkable. (I didn’t know until after that the window was open and we were by the walkway to the parking lot, so that must have been interesting for some people) She told me she wanted me to cum. I was so into the “keeping it hard and giving her what she needs” mode that I had to do something that would change gears and get me off quickly. I put her flat on her back, straddled her face and fucked her mouth. She had her hands on my thighs to control my depth and after a few minutes of that I shot my load into her mouth. I don’t get offended if a girl spits or pushes it out but she swallowed the whole thing without a sound or an expression. We laid there for a few minutes wrapped together, I’m one of the guys that loves to cuddle and enjoy the high for as long as it lasts and feel her skin against mine.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She had to get home as it was getting late. I stayed at the motel and relaxed watching Family Guy for a bit- I paid for the whole night after all. I hoped she had a good time and would want to do it again. I take pride in putting on a good show.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. When it comes to girls we always support each other.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Just like any first time the anticipation is overwhelming. You wonder what she smells like, tastes like, how she’s shaved, what noises she makes, how she looks naked, is she quiet or loud, is she submissive, does she give active feedback? She was awesome- kinky, dirty and hot. What more could I ask for?!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not enjoying her for as long as I would have liked to.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’m a lover of women from head to toe, and I love sex. The more things like this happen the more I realize that most women are as horny as I am and are willing to act on it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We did this when she could get free for about six months. I’ll write about the more memorable ones.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex between consenting adults is fantastic.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it. I get to share hot experiences I have had and get to read about the same from others.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!