What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Southern United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? In public…pure, virginal: in the bedroom, wild and uninhibited
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My Married Fuck buddy

How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We’d met once, less than a month before. He walked into my office and took my breath away. He was tall, dark and handsome but unfortunately was wearing a wedding band. He lived hundreds of miles away anyway. So I figured I’d never see him again and went home and fantasized about him inside me while bringing myself to cum.

The day we decided to fuck. We had been emailing each other for a bit. He was going to be back in town and we were going to grab dinner. Not sure of his intentions, I asked him. He’d been thinking about what it would be like. I had too, since the first time we met. It was going to be just this once while he was in town.

I fucked T. for the first time.
It started with him undressing me. I think I sucked him for a bit. Then he ate my pussy. I think the first time he was inside me, I was on top. We finished with him on top, fucking me till he came.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had to deal with other for work and even though it was only email, there was a bit of harmless/PG flirting. Then he told me he owed me dinner and would take me out next time he was in town. I wondered if dinner was all he had in mind, and thinking maybe it wasn’t turned me on. So I asked him if he was going to try to fuck me while he was here. He’d been thinking about it too, but had only been married a few months and had never done anything like this. We decided it was a go, but just this one time. What followed next was 3 weeks of hot, email foreplay.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We didn’t have dinner. We wanted each other so badly that I went straight to his hotel room. We started kissing timidly. We were both a bit nervous since we’d only met for less than a minute once. His kiss got me hot and wet. Then he began undressing me. I fondled his cock through his pants. Then I pulled it out and sucked it for a bit. He tasted amazing. His obvious pleasure being in my mouth got me even wetter. Then he sat me in a chair while he ate my pussy. His tongue felt divine. I could tell he was very experienced. We moved to the bed and he continued teasing me with his lips. I begged for him to get inside me. He pulled me to him and started fondling my breasts, kissing me again. Somehow I ended up on top of him and couldn’t wait anymore. I grabbed his hard cock and stuffed it in my tight cunt. We both groaned in pleasure. Then I started riding that huge thing up and down as hard as I could. He was so thick, he filled up every inch of my hot pussy which had me gasping and writhing with pleasure. He was about to lose control so he flipped me over, pushed my legs back and pounded into me again and again, deeper and deeper until he came. As he lay on top of me, I could feel his cock inside me throbbing from its release. After we talked about work and music a bit, we decided to hook up again the next night, then he kissed me goodbye.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt guilty because he’s married. But I also felt completely satisfied and wanted more of the hot pleasure I’d experienced. I thought we’d not see each other again. That was the plan. My pussy hoped we’d meet again. Now, every time I get an email from him before I even open it, I get wet with excitement. He’s the best fuck I’ve ever had and I hope we don’t ever stop.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Amazing sex with no expectations that is still happening

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We live so far apart that we don’t get to fuck enough.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I feel more confident about my ability to sexually please a man. It’s a good feeling to know you can make someone feel so good that even though it’s wrong and he tries to stop, he keeps fucking you for 7 years.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We’ve tried to stop, but we seem to be sexual soul mates and have not been successful in breaking it off.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? My thoughts haven’t changed. I still don’t agree with it and think it can be dangerous and hurtful. However, it’s a great solution for a married guy who’s not getting pleased at home and
Southern Baptist “good girl” who doesn’t believe in sex before marriage but is not sure marriage will ever happen and is desperately needing laid.

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