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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 49
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Finance
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? A month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall handsome man…slender with black hair who was visiting the US from France with his family. They were staying at the same hotel we were and we met at the hotel pool. I had no idea what was going to happen, nor did I have any experiences with other men before this.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? There was absolutely no planning of this hookup…at least on my part. We had been talking casually at the pool and I excused myself to the restroom. He followed me into the restroom about 30 seconds later.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I turned around to see him standing there with his swimsuit down around his ankles. I tried to look away, but he had the largest cock I had ever seen. Probably nine to ten inches long, as thick as a Red Bull can with a large mushroom head. It was magnificent. He commanded me to get on my knees, but I verbally resisted. However, my own erection betrayed me. Within seconds, I was on my knees and sucking his dick. After a few minutes, I could feel him tightening up and knew he was about to come. I tried to back away, but he forced me to keep sucking. I tried to swallow it all, but it was running out of the corners of my mouth. He pulled up his shorts and exited, leaving me on my knees and cum everywhere.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Initially, I was freaked out, but by the next day, I realized I just had one of the hottest sexual encounters in my life.

Since I’ll never see this person again, there are no expectations. However, I often masturbate thinking his cock and I am curious to explore this further.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave a clear ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Eventually, I told my wife about it. Not only did she not freak out, she embraced it and it has reignited our sex life. She cannot wait to see me suck a cock and get fucked by a man.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having a new experience. Had he not initiated this I doubt I would have ever opened up this part of my sexual life.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Because his cock was so big, I suspect I would not very good at sucking it. I struggled. Although he eventually came, I doubt it was that great of an experience for him.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not only has it opened up the possibility of more encounters with other men, threesomes with my wife, etc…but I also discovered that I enjoyed the humiliation of having someone dominate me and command me to get on my knees and suck.

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People need to relax and enjoy themselves in a safe manner. Male bisexuality should be celebrated like on the same level of female bisexuality.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome

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