What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Social worker
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? About 45 yrs, white, clean cut and normal looking. Seemed friendly and smart.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was super horny for a few weeks. So I replied to an ad on CL about a man offering a full body massage for free at home. He said he would come with his massage table. I knew it was going to be more than the massage of course but I wanted to be touched all over before ‘starting’.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So he comes over, has a glass of wine, sets the table, I climb on it, naked, covered by a mini towel. He does my back and legs. I turn around. I know he is staring at my huge breasts. He massages them a little. He doesn’t continue the massage and starts licking my pussy instead. I am a bit disappointed, I wanted him to keep massaging for a while before we get to business. But I can’t really push him off so I close my eyes and go along with it. Then we move to the bedroom and he fucks me. He was okay but not great. Also he didn’t lick me until I came, as he had said he would.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He left 30 min later. I was fine with that. We parted in a friendly way. He never contacted me again (nor did I) although he has my number.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. Never told anyone.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting a body massage with benefits.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not reaching orgasm and him not finishing the massage.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No. Just that you shouldn’t believe everything people write on the internet.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? He forgot his bottle of massage oil, so i still have it! Lol!

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