by Fenris

Gender: Male
Age: 46
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: London UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Actor
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? about 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Me, Her And Alcohol Part 1

How long ago did this hookup happen? March 2014

How would you best classify this hookup? short term fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was 43 , Blonde, petite, pretty. Never met before. Met at a friends

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was staying with a female friend’s “M” house and had been out for the day. When I came back my friend was with two other women. “A” who I knew before and was a neighbour and “C” who I had never met before. They introduced me to C who immediately squeezed my hand.

It seems M and A had picked C up from a work conference 60 miles away since she had  had rather too much to drink and had brought her home to M’s house since C still shared a house with her ex husband.

A had to leave to look after children and M had to go to Yoga so they asked me to look after her and I agreed having nothing else going on.

C asked me to sit next to her and talk and immediately whispered “shall we have sex” into my ear. I was rather taken aback and she repeated the request. I asked to wait until the others were gone. She started to masturbate me under the covers of a blanket which was noticed by ‘A” who told “M” what was going on. M approached me to ask if I was ok ( and presumably needed rescuing) I said I was just fine(like obviously). The two left and we immediately went upstairs to bed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? C immediately undressed, no kissing or anything, and just went straight into bed. It was freezing so we went under the sheets as quickly as possible. C wanted penetration immediately but I wanted to perform cunnilingus on her first, we then  had vaginal sex and returned to cunnilingus. She came twice, we had vaginal sex again then she fell asleep.

M had returned to the house so I got up and went downstairs and we chatted. I said that C was asleep.

A arrived to check up on C and stormed downstairs screaming ” I don’t beleive it’ to M. C had told A hat she had had sex and A was screaming next at me. M shrugged and didn’t really see a problem and C came down stairs trying to stop A.

C and I returned to bed and continued having sex. We got into deep conversation C said she had only had 4 partners in her life having been married 20 years with only one affair. She said I masturbated her ‘like a woman’ ie using circular rather than linear motions and that my oral technique was like nothing before (seemed pretty standard to me but I like the praise). She had never tried woman lying down with rear vaginal entry before and was quite blown away by it and wanted to try it again and again. later that evening she informed me that she didn’t like anything around her anal area. I pointed out that she had just orgasmed 1) when I had manual stimulated her vagina and anus simultanously and then again when I had rimmed her. She then changed her mind on the matter and we attempted anal sex which she found too difficult.

next day I got up and she stayed in bed- she complained that I was gone too long (3 hours) and we returned to bed and continued at this time bringing spanking into the mix (she was receiving at here request playing the part of a maid or a school girl)  This continued through the night and throughout the following day when we ran out of alcohol in the late evening where there was nothing else open.

C spent a difficult night and in the morning was gone back to her family home.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, Yes

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No precautions. She asked me later about it and I said I would get tested and did. there was no issue.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I’m a man It was offered what more can I say

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Huge amounts of alcohol for her.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She didn’t want to have  a physical relationship with me. She was happy to see me socially but didn’t ‘fancy’ me.

I felt worthless frankly. I am rich,intelligent,caring and funny (her words) but apparently not good looking enough. I went to depression

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? M mostly. She was very annoyed at C but conciliatory to me.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes/ Yes I think

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? In a way because it caused me so much pain later

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I had GREAT sex for 3 days non stop

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? There is a sequel 2 months later

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