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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Melbourne
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3

Me, her & her best friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? Just over 2 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My girlfriend at the time was 5’6″, medium blonde hair, blue eyes, fit, openly bi and gorgeous. Her best friend was 5’2″, long brunette hair, dark brown eyes, fit and very sexy. I’d been dating my girlfriend for 4 years and known her friend for about 3. My girlfriend and I had a very active sex life and very open with each other. Always had a secret crush on her friend.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’m at work and my girlfriend (GF) came in and said we were having a threesome with her friend (BFF) tonight. I said sweet (thinking that she was just kidding, as we had teased each other before about it). I get to her place after work, and GF and BFF were on her bed in maid and nurse outfits. That’s when I realise this is actually happening.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It started with GF and BFF making out. BFF slightly nervous, but relaxed quickly. It changed to GF giving me oral while BFF and I made out. GF got BF down with her and both gave me oral (GF has always given me great oral, but BFF was incredible). GF gave BFF oral while BFF and I made out. GF 69 me and BFF gave me oral as well. BFF gave oral to GF while I made out with GF. I moved and slid my cock inside BFF. I rolled over and GF sat on my face while making out with BFF. GF and BFF 69 while I fucked BFF in doggystyle, then sliding down GF throat (GF has always wanted to taste another woman’s pussy on my cock). GF and BFF kneel in front of me, making out, as I came all over their faces and breasts. GF licks up my cum off BFF’s breasts and makes out with her. BFF and I 69 and GF sucks on my balls. BFF deepthroats my cock down to my balls (GF has a gag reflex) and GF kissed BFF neck and played with her nipples. GF sits on my cock and BFF makes out with me. GF gives BFF oral and BFF gives me oral. GF and BFF are on their knees, both giving me oral, as I cum down BFF’s throat.
BFF spends the night and we all fall asleep in GF’s bed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After a long nights sleep, we went out for breakfast. None of us felt any different about each other. We all agreed that it would stay between us and that if the moment was right, we would do it again.
18 months later, in the same week, GF and I parted ways and BFF and GF had a falling out and have only seen each other once since (eight months ago).
I still care deeply about them, but only see them on the odd occasion.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only one other person knows about it. A mutual friend of all of us. I’m the only one who still sees her. When I talked to her about it, she was supportive of us experiencing something new.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Enjoying a new experience with people I care about.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We only did it once.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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