What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Winston-Salem
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Meeting A Handsome Stranger
How long ago did this hookup happen? Tonight
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was never into dating sites, I would just stick to regular social media. We met on an app called “Meet Me.” I had a profile for 3 years but never used it, until last week, to see if I got any hits. Low and behold, I got many guys older and younger than me who seemed very interested. I wasn’t interested until he added me as a friend. I quickly messaged him and told him he looked like dude from a band. I remember asking for his number because the dating app was getting on my nerves with the messaging. We began to hit it off and talked often until he had asked me if I wanted to hang out and meet. I agreed, and we ended up going downtown into an area and ate lunch together. We talked about our hopes and dreams. We chatted about the area and our families a bit. We had many things in common. He was the perfect gentleman.
I felt very confident in the guy. We continued talking after that day and the next weekend we decided to meet up again but this time it would be at his place.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I met him at his place. He had said that he was going to grill me some dinner. He didn’t have charcoal so we had to go to the store after I arrived. We sat in the car together and listened to music. I helped him grill when we got back and we ate dinner together at the table. We had steak and green beans. After we were finished, we ended up watching TV together and later he asked if I wanted to cuddle with him. I jokingly was surprised but caved. His dog took up my armrest on his couch so I had to scoot closer to him so the dog could eventually sleep. I continued to cuddle with him and we talked about our relationships and why we are single. Then he proceeded to tell me that he liked me and gave me a kiss on the lips.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He kissed me and I kissed him back. I got on top of him and made out with him for a long time. I later told him that I’m a bad girl for doing this. He smacked my butt as I was telling him I’m being naughty. He asked me if I wanted to continue to do things and I said yes. I was a bit nervous to show my body because it had been a while for me. Soon I felt confident to show myself off, taking my shirt off. He loved my body. He couldn’t stop saying how hot I was. Eventually, he asked me if I wanted to take this upstairs to his room (we were in a basement watching TV). I readily agreed and said yes! I had him carry me to his room and I kissed his cheek and his neck. He complimented me, saying how beautiful I looked in his bed. My shirt was already off when we were downstairs in the basement so I was in my bra. He continued to slap my butt and I kissed him as he continued to suck my breast. We continued to make out and he told me how much he wanted to fuck the shit out of me. I felt his hard dick and began to rub it making him hornier. I gave him consent to give me oral and holy hell was that amazing! He fingered me and ate me out. He took off his pants and pulled his dick out as I begin to stroke. I didn’t want to have sex with him because he didn’t have condoms so ended up giving him oral.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are still talking and we might be dating!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one knows
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had a great time. Would do it again!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Was nervous he wouldn’t like what he sees about me thought it wouldn’t hear from him again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I never thought having a one-night stand would be so wonderful. And very happy it happened! I wish people wouldn’t look down on it it’s a wonderful experience if you choose the right person.
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