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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Chennai
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Go with the flow
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Mesmerizing Multifaceted Mother

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is my mom so, I have known her for my whole life (22yrs) and she is 45. She is an electric, scintillating, and open person. I can communicate to her without any inhibitions and vice versa. We talk about fantasies when we are alone and have made out before. I would do anything for her and I love her with all my heart.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I instigated it. We were sleeping in the same bed and when I woke up I looked over at her. She may easily be mistaken for a fairy. She is a mother, a wife, and a great lover. I respect her more than anyone in this world.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? To summarise: We 69ed, did her on top, missionary, and doggy-style. We used blindfolds as well. If I had the tools, I would have completed a Fifty shades book. During the sex, I felt loved, ethereal, and secure. I felt vulnerable and sheltered, violated and victorious, dominated and dignified. We treated each other with respect. She has the tenderness of a mother and the boldness of an animal. We have a lot to learn from elders. We spoke of our fantasies, ex-lovers, and how my father and I differ in our performances in bed. It ended with us orally pleasuring each other, kissing, and smoking into each other’s mouths. We would have gone on till the world’s end if not for our limited energy.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? 

I can make love to her anytime. Everything in this world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power. I love her but I love power more.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, To feel more confident, Power / Dominance, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was my Mom.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She was my Mom.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It will bring us closer. We bonded a lot.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We have genuine love and respect for each other.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s a healthy way to develop intimacy among two or more people. Sex is good. We are breathing at this moment because of sex only. Respect in sex matters.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent platform to share experiences

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!